I Feel Like a Fraud

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Comment by Marsha on October 10, 2012 at 8:58pm

((((Emy))))) you are not a fraud. You are experiencing the journey of grief. It is so hard to try and figure everything out especially in the beginning. So many things to consider. Breath and take it a baby step at a time. We have good and bad days. Just keep moving forward and when you're tired just orbit for awhile. Sending thoughts of peace and comfort and tons of hugs.

Comment by tanya on October 10, 2012 at 8:38pm

EMY DONT GIVE UP GIRL!!!!!!!  Sounds like you have hit bottom and you know what they say once you hit bottom the only way to go is up...Look Up and go with it...If you dont like the cats hiss at them, make faces at them who cares if they like it or not they are cats and if it makes you feel better do it.  Fluff up your hair and slap on the make up. Then look strait into the mirror and say you have been to hell and back but you have held up pretty dang good. Give this Florida thing a good shot .  My daddy told me and he was a very wise man. If you expect to fail you will. Be a winner. take small deliberate steps and run with it darlin!!!!!

Comment by janet on October 10, 2012 at 8:32pm

(((Emy))).  It is still so new for you.  I understand being sick of Cats with as many as there are there.  I wouldl be too.  I have been in that place myself during this journey and it is no fun for sure.  Take it one breath, one step and one day at a time, even one moment if that is what you need to do.  The best thing you can do right now is to take care of Emy. 

Sending hugs your way.  Wishing you Peace and Hope.

Comment by bj628(Bonnie) on October 10, 2012 at 8:18pm

((((((((((Emy))))))))))))) You have had so many things to deal with, with no break in between.

I had days,and times.. I did not care about life.. but for somereason we are still meant to be here.. To continue our journey.. we may make a wrong turn, or go down a path full of blackberry bushes. You are not a fraud, just a dear lady trying to find her way.. and you will.. keep hope and faith. 

Comment by TammyRI on October 10, 2012 at 2:55pm

Hi Emy

Im so sorry your feeling this way right now.  Sometimes I feel like we just have to make it one minute at a time.  I can understand the desire to just be free from all the pain.  I will be praying for you Emy.  (((Emy))))

Comment by hendrixx2 on October 10, 2012 at 9:41am

Hi Emy,

It is not not an abnormal feeling, at least I don't think so; I feel that way sometimes...we question our sincerity at times about the choices we've made. You are not really a fraud, you're a human being attempting to deal with a very deep and personal period of your life...that you question yourself is good, I think it is where we learn about ourselves, and it helps us to make better decisions. Feel what you need to feel, without thoughts of being a fraud, if possible, we have to keep in mind, we are human and one of the best things we can do is to keep trying...keep moving forward in this different life ((((hugz))))