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Love Her - While You Have Her!!
Today I took a tour bus to Greektown Casino in Detroit just to get away for awhile, Little Esther use to love going there and sometimes we stayed overnight, it was on her bucket list at the end, we had a room reserved but we didn't make it.
Anyway the blog is about a couple on the bus that I had the displeasure of sitting behind. He was loud and a bully to his wife, she was quiet and submissive to her husband what a match made in He!! I rode all the way in silence and moved to another seat far away for the trip back. I could have said something to him but I am sure he was to ignorant to take it to heart and I really didn't wan't to end up in the Detroit lock-up even though I would have loved to apply some leverage to him.
I guess the reason I am writing is I wonder with all of the stress of today's life how many of us would miss-treat that special person in our life if we were able to have a do-over. Little Esther use to hold my hand and sleep on my shoulder on our trips, I just wish I could hold her again.
As I posted awhile back on my FB page - "Love Her - While You Have Her". OR Him..
Max.
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Comment by Suz on July 15, 2012 at 12:02pm -
So sweet, Max. So glad you could have that kind of love.
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Comment by chez2all on July 14, 2012 at 12:22am -
Thanks Max for sharing this story...I never could understand the reason ppl weren't kinder to those they chose to marry...it's such a simple thing!
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Comment by janet on July 13, 2012 at 9:54pm -
It does make you stoop and wonder Max why people put up with it. I knew a couple that used to come to the bar we frequented quite often. He was a bully and she was the quiet submissive type. It literally got to where we would leave when they came in. Jim wanted to say something so bad but would not for fear of the Dallas Police being called. I do understand.
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