My heart is breaking right now. This time it is not about My Grief – but on my dearest and beloved friend who is about to start on this long hard journey. Her husband is in Hospice as I am writing this. Her husband was one who basically had nine lives – came really close to death and he came back fighting. But, then they said he would not get any better. And the family had to decide should we prolong his life or stop dialysis and start with Hospice. Lots of paper work and as we all know the feelings of what goes in.
My heart is hurting so much – my friend is in NJ where I used to live and I can’t afford to take a flight to be with her. But I will be with her every step of the way – when the phone calls start stopping and people start saying all those cruel remarks that hurt us deep to the core.
Please pray for my friend as she stands by her beloved and is there when he breathes his last breath. Her son and daughter and granddaughter I’m sure are also by his bed side. She is the most unselfish, loving person on this universe that I am proud to call my friend. She was always there for me and like myself she couldn’t be there physically for me. Justin was lucky enough to meet her, get to know her and when we were planning our wedding I couldn’t spend as much time because was doing so much with planning our wedding. We always spent hours every day talking on the phone - Justin called her and explained how much I mean to her. All was well and good and they were at our engagement party.
She was so happy that I finally found the one to share my lifetime partner with – and was there when all my pieces fell apart.
I ask that you light a candle for her soul mate to be with no more pain and suffering and that she has an easy journey through the club we never want to be a member of. Hopefully I will leave her to Widowed Village – where my life was saved and am grateful to too many people to name who I will love forever.
Thank you again.
In Hope and Love.