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omg! spinning out of control....
well it will be seven weeks ago that I lost Rob..... and I can not believe all that has happened. everything that we worked for is gone.my house is on the market... taking a loss... I bought a mobile home 600 miles away from here..... my birth place... I have a hard time calling it home.... because home was where we were together.... when I relocate to Pa I will be leaving my adult daughters behind to live their lives.... they would be the only reasons for me to stay........ I guess if I were a bit older I could see that to be enough... but I am still up for an adventure.... well my head is... my heart is telling me otherwise... all I know is if I stay here I will loose everything.... why wasn't he better prepared?
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Comment by kimmig on January 27, 2013 at 11:06pm
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hugsss..
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Comment by brig_83 on January 27, 2013 at 10:20pm -
thank you ....I will be 50 sw of Philadelphia. As far as support . well Rob'' s mom is staying with .men an has been very supportive.. she lost he husband 6 years ago... but she is still grieving ...... m girls Are 22 & 27... the youngest is a good kid but has yet to become self sufficient.... she is now being shoved out of the nest.. nudging didn't work. the older one is married with kids , she tries to be there but she is bipolar with addiction issues... so she is wrestling her own demons right now. I have few friends... my life was my husband and family. my mom died when I was 19 and my sister 8 yrs later. I have plenty of people telling me what I should do..... but it's not much support or listening or helping.... I will get it together.
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Comment by telechick on January 27, 2013 at 9:52am
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deep breaths. You will get through this. Just take things one breath at a time. Your grief is still very new. I moved a month after my husband died and got through it with the help of my family and friends. It's definitely not ideal, but if you must, you must. Can you lean on your daughters or some friends? You need to ask for all the help you can right now. ((hugs))
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