After 7 years I hoped I would be better at this. This morning I am having a very hard time. Two weeks after losing my husband I found a job. I met a lady there that helped me make it through each day. She was so good and kind to me. Friday night she lost her husband. My heart just breaks for her. He had lost his insurance when he had to quit work because he got sick. Now he is lying in the morgue until she can figure out how to bury him or what to do. I can't imagine having to do this. It has sent me into a weeping frenzy. I have spoke on the phone with her and want to visit but can't build up the courage. I want to be a support not a sniveling disaster. How do I man up and help her?