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12 Christmases without my hubby.  My heart is breaking because I don’t have anyone yet to share the load with. I feel like I have lost everything.  My husband, my house, my children, my job. I am not homeless because of friends I live with and I feel like shit because I can’t afford to pay them what the place is worth.  Why am I even alive?

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Comment by sis on December 31, 2018 at 3:50pm

I hear you, Daisy. I do not have the same experience of the loss of house, children, and job, but I've lost my sense of purpose so I feel I have no direction. I'm just hoping in time I will see what my purpose is, otherwise I just feel that I am taking up space. This is my first and I can't conjure in my mind the second, let alone the twelfth alone. I'm hoping to try some new things this coming year although I'm 70 so they won't be too .exotic but something to get me away from the house. God bless you, Daisy

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