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I’ve been trying for the past month to make sense of it all; to figure out who I am without my husband. Do I need to distance myself from all we were together; would that help me through the grieving process? Then this morning our Priest spoke of marriage as he described the love two share and the sacrifices one makes for their mate, tears rolled down my face. And they were bittersweet. The sacrifice of love to each other and to others was very much a part of who we were…. and is who I am. And that’s okay. I will become more than I am now as the grieving process will change me; form me into who I will become and will continue to become. There is no arriving at who I am, not completely way, until my last day. But who I am now will always be a part of who I become…if I let it.