It is hard to hear what the truth is, as it is hard to hear this feeling is going to move in for a while. My friends? There are so few to draw comfort from. My 17 yr old doesnt tell me how he feels it is just such a lonely feeling
Yes i am trying today was another rough one, my wifes twin came over last night to bring me Judy's ashes and it hit me last night but today it ambushed me on the job with my son Dillon. He caught me crying and came to me to hug me. I am learning this site so it may take a while at first for me to respond.
Thanks for your support. I don't know if its getting better day by day yet. I am just accepting how I feel while tring to do what I need to do. I do hope the dark cloud starts letting in a little light. It has in brief moments. I still just miss him so much.
kenslove, thank you, i had become worried that something was wrong, or that i might never have a dream about my wife. finally i did, and was relieved; was more reliveved that it was a good dream and not the nightmare i had been fearing. sorry for your loss, i'm sure your husband is a very special person and i'm praying for you to have your good dream also.
I am sorry for you also, i dont know what to do qith myself this is just so unbearable
At 10:57pm on February 16, 2012, suddenlyalone said…
Im taking one day at a time also. Valentines Day was rough for me, I have never felt so lonely and couldnt do anything but cry. Thursday was my birthday and my Godmother treated me to a Singles Retreat that weekend. I couldnt even relate because I still felt married. A woman that shared the hotel room with me lost her husband 2 years ago and she was able to minister to me. I felt a lot better after that.
At 10:28pm on February 13, 2012, suddenlyalone said…
Thank-you for your comment on my page. You're right..it's hard enough losing the love of your life..but then to have to fight for justice just opens all the wounds over again. I'll fight as long as I have to though. My husband deserves that much.
Welcome athomasmack, Im so sorry you have to be here. I hope you will find it as helpful as I have to have a place to talk to others who understand what you are going through.
Hi athomasmack, Im sorry for your recent loss. I lost my husband 11/20/11 and I know the pain you are going through. This site has been very helpful to me and I hope that it does the same for you. Feel free to message me anytime
Dear Kenslove: I'm so sorry for your very recent loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
Welcome, athomasmack. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a long tough road ahead, but the sun does come out again. This is a wonderful, caring community. It has helped me a great deal to talk to people who understand.
I'm so very sorry for the loss that brought you here, but glad you found us. I hope you will find peace and comfort here as you travel this healing journey. Please remember none of us need travel it alone. We are here when you need us. Welcome.
Welcome athomasmack..I am very sorry for your very recent loss..this is a very great community of caring people, yes indeed it will get better...slowly...
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Happy Birthday! I hope you are able to have a good day.
Thank you for taking the time to comment. It is nice to know that someone truly understands what I am living through.
Thanks for your support. I don't know if its getting better day by day yet. I am just accepting how I feel while tring to do what I need to do. I do hope the dark cloud starts letting in a little light. It has in brief moments. I still just miss him so much.
kenslove, thank you, i had become worried that something was wrong, or that i might never have a dream about my wife. finally i did, and was relieved; was more reliveved that it was a good dream and not the nightmare i had been fearing. sorry for your loss, i'm sure your husband is a very special person and i'm praying for you to have your good dream also.
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Im taking one day at a time also. Valentines Day was rough for me, I have never felt so lonely and couldnt do anything but cry. Thursday was my birthday and my Godmother treated me to a Singles Retreat that weekend. I couldnt even relate because I still felt married. A woman that shared the hotel room with me lost her husband 2 years ago and she was able to minister to me. I felt a lot better after that.
Hi just coming through and checking on you
Thank-you for your comment on my page. You're right..it's hard enough losing the love of your life..but then to have to fight for justice just opens all the wounds over again. I'll fight as long as I have to though. My husband deserves that much.
Welcome athomasmack, Im so sorry you have to be here. I hope you will find it as helpful as I have to have a place to talk to others who understand what you are going through.
Hi athomasmack, Im sorry for your recent loss. I lost my husband 11/20/11 and I know the pain you are going through. This site has been very helpful to me and I hope that it does the same for you. Feel free to message me anytime
Dear Kenslove: I'm so sorry for your very recent loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
Thank you for the friend request. Peace and hugs to you.
Thank you for the friend request, I'm honored.
Welcome. So deeply sorry for your loss.
Welcome, athomasmack. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a long tough road ahead, but the sun does come out again. This is a wonderful, caring community. It has helped me a great deal to talk to people who understand.
I'm so very sorry for the loss that brought you here, but glad you found us. I hope you will find peace and comfort here as you travel this healing journey. Please remember none of us need travel it alone. We are here when you need us. Welcome.
Welcome athomasmack..I am very sorry for your very recent loss..this is a very great community of caring people, yes indeed it will get better...slowly...
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