Thanks for the nice comment on my ring! I am so glad you are still wearing your rings. It makes me sad when I hear of everyone taking off their rings. I plan to wear mine forever. No reason to ever take it off. I don't ever want to date and I want to always show the world how much I love my Scott and how committed I am to him, even if he died first.
Thank You so much for your kind words and understanding. It sounds like our husbands had alot in common. I agree with you I miss his grumpy days too. I miss everything about him. I hate having to call for someone to reapir something that I know Jim could fix somehow, but it is what it is I guess. Thanks again and thank you for the friend request, I need as many understanding friends as I can find.
Hi! I saw your earlier comments. I am almost at three years too. I could so relate to your comments about friends. This has not been a fun road but it is getting a little easier. Hope you are starting to feel some peace.
Hi. I lost my husband suddenly on August 16, 2012 to a massive heart attack. We would have been married 35 years on February 10th. We had so many plans that we put on hold as my mom had lung cancer. Lost her on October 15th. I am in the process of selling her house in NJ. My daughter is living there now but is moving closer to me in Nc in June. Life will never be the same. I cry everyday. Oh how I miss John and mom.
feelinglonely..........boy that's a perfect name. Lonely discribes our situation perfectly, Thank you for your kind words and I'm sorry for your loss as well. It's only been a year for me but, a totally lost one. I'm having trouble navagating around on this site. I hope to figure it out because I think it might help to "talk" to others that understand. Dusty
Welcome feelinglonely: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"
Oh girl - I know what you mean. Somedays it still is so hard to wrap my head and heart around the fact that Mark's been gone almost 2 1/2 years......how is that possible ??? I miss him and love him more everyday.
I just miss our life........the life that we had, and the future that we planned.....and I don't think that will ever go away.
I'm glad you found us here.............it's helped me and I hope that you'll come here often. Hugs to you.
I'm sorry for your loss, feelinglonely, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info
Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.