Thanks for the friend request. Writing in the main forums for everyone to read is kind of scary and intimidating, but it does help. If you ever want to chat 1 on 1 let me know.
I do find that it is nice to chat with people who understand. It is comforting to be able to talk to people and open up to them without fear of judgment as they have the same sad history and problems, I have found.
I have just started to dip my toe into the dating world a few months ago and do not find it totally enjoyable yet but life must go on and for my own sanity I must keep trying. It is funny but when I started, the first few women I kissed, I was feeling like I was cheating on Marsha. I was told that is normal and I should keep going. Just seemed weird to me. I guess you do not know when it is time to move on but not forget the joy of your past.
I hope all is you and your new chapter in your life. If you want to chat or want comments, I am more than happy to continue this conversation.
Hi Tina, It is nice to meet you. After 3 years of my wife, Marsha, and I fighting Lung Cancer, we ended up loosing the battle and thus I am here as well. I have found that I have gotten some clarity on certain things that have come up in my new life as I put my life together and get ready to start the next phase of my life. It was kind of like all the cards were lined up for the rest of my life and then suddenly the deck of cards hit the ground and scattered. I know have to pick up the cards (pieces of my life) and put things back in order. If you would like to talk, please feel free to contact me. It has been 13 months for me. Jan
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Hi Tina -
Thanks for the friend request. Writing in the main forums for everyone to read is kind of scary and intimidating, but it does help. If you ever want to chat 1 on 1 let me know.
Hugs,
Linda
Thank very much for the friend request. I am still figuring all this out.
Hi Tina,
I'm new to this site. Thanks for the friend request.
Ken
Hi Tina,
I do find that it is nice to chat with people who understand. It is comforting to be able to talk to people and open up to them without fear of judgment as they have the same sad history and problems, I have found.
I have just started to dip my toe into the dating world a few months ago and do not find it totally enjoyable yet but life must go on and for my own sanity I must keep trying. It is funny but when I started, the first few women I kissed, I was feeling like I was cheating on Marsha. I was told that is normal and I should keep going. Just seemed weird to me. I guess you do not know when it is time to move on but not forget the joy of your past.
I hope all is you and your new chapter in your life. If you want to chat or want comments, I am more than happy to continue this conversation.
Till next time.
Take Care and Be Well
Jan
Hi Tina, It is nice to meet you. After 3 years of my wife, Marsha, and I fighting Lung Cancer, we ended up loosing the battle and thus I am here as well. I have found that I have gotten some clarity on certain things that have come up in my new life as I put my life together and get ready to start the next phase of my life. It was kind of like all the cards were lined up for the rest of my life and then suddenly the deck of cards hit the ground and scattered. I know have to pick up the cards (pieces of my life) and put things back in order. If you would like to talk, please feel free to contact me. It has been 13 months for me. Jan
Hi, Tina. Thanks for the friend request.
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