Welcome Vix to our community of tears I am sorry you are here. I know you are hurting so here is a (((BIG HUG))) from your friends here. When your heart is breaking and your family and friends can not understand your feelings, please come to Widowed Village we will fully understand your feelings and be here to give you support.
If you hear the bleeps that means someone is in chat. Drop over and see what the discussion is and feel free to introduce yourself. Just say Hi I am new and you will be welcomed by the members who are on chat. Now if you are hurting and having a bad day come to chat and no matter what the subject is please say Hi I am new and having a bad day, or Hi i am new and hurting. The people on chat will immediately focus their attention on you and give you support.
Night is especially bad for most of us, after the kids are in bed and all the days chores are done. It gets so lonely sitting in the big old quiet house, if this happens to you I would like to invite you to come to chat and join us. We would like to get to know you and introduce ourselves to you. Some times we have light hearted discussions going on or we will be talking about just anything at all. We may be also trying to give one of the members of the community who is having a bad day or who is hurting, some support. I would love to meet you in chat, I will see you there.