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At 11:14am on May 23, 2018, Sunflower said…

Thank you Rainy (Misty).

At 5:45pm on April 27, 2018, FloFloogal said…

Thanks. I'm working on figuring everything out now. I appreciate the welcome.

At 2:46pm on April 24, 2018, Vanda said…

Misty, you have been dealt a terrible blow, losing Jerry and your ex husband in such a short space of time. Must be really hard for you and your children. My thoughts are with you. Hopefully you have some close friends who will support you plus the friends you make on this website. X

At 9:10am on April 23, 2018, Vanda said…

Thank you Misty. I should introduce myself. My name is Vanda, i’m 59, live in Wales, UK and have two children, Mike 31 and Sammi, 28.i lost my husband, Phil,  on 31 March 2017 to pancreatic cancer. Phil was diagnosed in early February 2017 and seven weeks later he passed away, aged only 56. That’s when our world fell apart!!

the past year has been so hard for the three of us. We can’t imagine how we will cope with the long years ahead of us without Phil. So many people loved him and there was a huge turn out for his funeral but many people fall by the wayside. Luckily I have a handful of close friends who keep in touch regularly. We were such a close family and enjoyed going on holiday together. Phil had served 31 years in the Police and we were looking forward to many holidays, relaxing together, but all of this and all that he worked so hard for was taken away from him.

Phil loved his music, Elton John being a firm favourite from the seventies. He also loved to visit America with Mike. They visited LA, San Francisco, Las Vegas, Florida and New York on many occasions.

Life seems so meaningless without Phil.

I’m sorry for your loss too, Misty. Hopefully I will find friends and comfort from visiting this site, as you have done.

Vanda x

At 9:07am on April 2, 2018, nayajivan said…

Thanks !

At 7:49am on April 2, 2018, nayajivan said…
Thank you very much for reaching out to me !

It is being very tough first few days and weeks for me and kids without her..

I just don't feel like doing anything...

I don't know how I will manage home and family now without her..?
At 3:29pm on March 29, 2018, Gary said…

thank you, and... likewise.

At 12:39pm on March 26, 2018, MartyG said…

Thank you, Misty, for your comment only post "Epiphany" is uplifting to know that I have friends here like you in WV :)

At 12:21pm on March 16, 2018, Peaceful3616 (Jessica) said…
You are so welcome!
At 5:02pm on January 31, 2018, Sonu said…

Hi Rainy, thankyou for reaching out to me and I am sorry for being late as I am stuck in all the legal matters now which i don't feel like doing but i have to. Honestly speaking I am not doing good.I feel like screaming, I don't know what to do. It has been 40 days and i still feel it was just yesterday. I feel his presence. He was my habit my daily routine. My day started with him and ended with him. Why does God take someone so soon? What more "GOOD" plans he has??

At 11:24am on January 29, 2018, Frank said…

Hi Rainy,

I received your "Friend" request and Yes, I'd like that a lot.



At 9:49am on January 11, 2018, Sonu said…

I am so sorry for your loss. Yes this is really devastating. It is midnight here in India and I can't sleep. I feel so empty inside. I can totally understand you.

At 6:00pm on January 2, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville Rainy. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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