Today, I had to deliver a "certificate of death" for my husband to an agency for a matter this is not important to mention here. As I sat in the parking lot, reviewing the form - it's facts and…Blog Certificate of Life 18 Likes Taking Care
Dear God, just checking in, as I do every day, to thank you for taking care of my Bob. I know he's free of illness and pain up there with you and that he's happy…Blog Taking Care 2 Likes The End of the Pavement
Throughout the 27 years I was together with my wife either dating or married, we worked on setting out targets. The targets were generally near term but we had a few longer term plans. Many of…Blog The End of the Pavement 1 Like
I'm brand new here and making my first post. I lost my husband of 47 years two and a half months ago. He became ill and two weeks later spent a week in the…Blog First Time Out 2 Likes Happy Anniversary..
Today would have been our 11th Anniversary. I've been dreading this day all month. My emotions have been all over the place. The incredible sadness followed by the bittersweet joy of memories. …Blog Happy Anniversary.. 2 Likes Living life to honour the lost....without the
I have 4 more years of school to go with the kids and then I am free to roam as Sean and I had planned to do. Only of course now, my plans, our plans, are all shot to pieces. Sean died and…Blog Living life to honour the lost....without the 1 Like Taking a new focus
There is always something new to worry about. The news from the neurosurgeon was not good. The aneurysm is not operable so I live with it. I know that if I have a sharp pain in my head I have to…Blog Taking a new focus 1 Like That feeling you forgot something!
I am sure we have all had that feeling, you gather your things to leave for the day and you get this feeling you forgot something. Sometimes you get to your destination only to find you really…Blog That feeling you forgot something! 3 Likes IT'S ALL IN THE NUMBERS
After reading other tragic stories, and trying to make sense of my own story; I found a common thread. We all associate the day, time, what we we're doing, weather and so on with the day our live…Blog IT'S ALL IN THE NUMBERS 1 Like My Bed
I have what is described in Australia, as a king sized bed. I am not sure what that is in other countries, but it is the largest standard sized bed available here. My husband was tall so he…Blog My Bed 3 Likes First post - Aloha My first post. Aloha from Hawaii. I was born in 1930 when (as they say) dinosaurs roamed the streets of Honolulu. My wife, Imiko, & I had been married for 56 years when she died of cancer. She p… Discussion First post - Aloha 1 Like
So I have been off for a while, very busy at work and taking a much needed vacation during the week of the fourth where I kept myself mostly away from electronics except for a few times where I…Blog In Search of a Pronoun 5 Likes How do I make Peace witth the "Never Again"
How will I ever make peace with the Never Again
I will Never Again hear you say "Hi Pumpkin I am Home or what is cooking good looking"
I will Never Again hold your hand as we walk…Blog How do I make Peace witth the "Never Again" 6 Likes
I've been thinking about the word survivor and why it's what we are called.
Last night I had a very scary medical drama, (I'm fine) but this morning I woke up and thought about it a…