As the days, weeks, now months have slowly passed since my wife died, I had things I had to do. Busy work yes, but it wasn't something I had ever done before. These required changes to my day. …Blog Painful...Routine 1 Like Who would notice? A statement was made tonight in Chat that I've been pondering. Who would notice if we didn't show up in chat much less facebook which many seem to be a member of? I know I am guilty of not contacting… Discussion Who would notice? 2 Likes Entering 2015.... How have you transformed s… Wishing you peace as we enter into a new year without our other half... How long has it been? How have you transformed as a person? What's the biggest blessing to happen to you after tragedy struck?… Discussion Entering 2015.... How have you transformed s… 3 Likes Home Alone
Gilbert died five months ago, and I'm beginning to realize that the Old Melissa died with him. Now I have to invent the New Melissa or allow her to surface; I'm not sure how it…Blog Home Alone 3 Likes
I went to Camp Widow East (Tampa) last weekend and well it was fun, sad, interesting, engaging and weird all at the same time. You wouldn't expect a bunch of people who are grieving the loss of…Blog Addicted to Camp? Well it can't be all bad.. 2 Likes Poems, songs and sayings... I had a pretty low morning and have been thinking of Jerry all morning and something he said to me years ago keeps playing in my head. When I asked him what would I ever do without him, he said to m… Discussion Poems, songs and sayings... 3 Likes My Pack photo My Pack 1 Like Counting the Days
I no longer say “my wife died (5,6,7,etc) days ago”, now it’s “a few months ago”. And before too long it will be “last year” and then “several years”. When I first realized I was saying “a few…Blog Counting the Days 2 Likes
Sorry for another long post but I have a lot that needs to get out these days....
Lists: wishes, anger and…Blog Lists: Wishes, Anger and Hope 19 Likes I have this feeling Today has been a horrible day. I am in the UK and have been confined to the house all day being snowed in. Did talk on the phone to family and did manage to get out for an hour but really first tim… Discussion I have this feeling 2 Likes