" riet...at 8+ years I have had this happen to me at some of the worse times....on my way into a Dr.s appt last time....and I kept wondering how I was going to control my emotions, the tears started and I fought to hold them back...didn't…"
"Melissa that is a lovely idea...my youngest married in Nov 2011, My husband passed March 2011...I don't know how either of us did it.....but we did...and her wedding was beautiful...I don't think I looked anything like me in…"
"I have looked at some John..and it seemed they were very expensive ..and very exotic countries...I would like to travel some more of the US before I go to different continents...if you do move back with your Dad...you have a friend in Phila...."
"John ..I think that is a blessing that you and your dad can share.....My sister passed away at 50...and my daughter at 21...Sadly my mother never mentioned either to me...we never shared the loss of our daughters..."
"I did go on SS;s website. SSI goes by financial need.it is not called SSDI..it is called SSI, similar to welfare...not SSD. SSD is strictly for disabled people who pay into it all their lives in the way of their SS tax...if you become disabled , you…"
"Some of this is wrong. SSD is paid by the worker . It comes out of their SS fund. I know this 100% for sure. it is nothing even close to welfare...if you are truly disabled you're not getting it..disability and welfare have nothing to do with…"
"Hi Lissa....Since I was injured right before my late husband was dx ...I was already on SSD when he passed...for some reason my SS which will convert to straight SS from SSD in about a year when I reach full retirement age is more then my…"
"AHHH! Barzan you sound like Bill and I ...we planned on a 2 bedroom rancher....with a brick patio out back and a pool for all the kids.....we had it all designed...didn't stand a chance ...he was dx at 51 and passed at 54...I retired to be his…"
"I have no bad feelings about my home..and am also grateful that I have one...it's just too much work for me, too big for just me, and now the repairs are killing me financially..I would like to sell and move into a nice one bedroom…"
"Barzan ...I am somewhat in your place...I am happy in my home...a lot of happy memories here...BUT it's too much house for me. too many rooms, too many repairs happening...I have wanted to move for maybe 3 years..I really want to just rent a…"
"Thank you all so much for your kind words...I figured I was normal and so was the grief coming back raw as it was years ago....my health isn't bad but I have had one thing after another...now am facing another possible cancer..I had lung and…"
"Hello..I know there isn't much normal about this journey , but after 8+ years I feel as if I am back to year 2..going to a grief group, not sure if it's helping or hurting...I have had many health problems and that doesn;t help. I miss my…"
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