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Shit People Say to Widows (and Widowers). Guaranteeed 100% authentic quotes from (mostly) well meaning friends, family, and colleagues. Featuring comments su...

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Comment by AEDforever (Ali) on May 3, 2012 at 9:19pm

Rock on..keep tellin the truth

Comment by AEDforever (Ali) on May 3, 2012 at 9:17pm

" He's in a better place" freaking infuriates me...listen up..HE might be in a better place...but I AM in a horrible's ME who is heartbroken. ME who is shocked, ME who is broke  ME who is scared ME who is crying..ME who is lonely ME who is utterly doesn't MATTER where HE is..only where ME is...dumbass.

Comment by bethsheba on March 27, 2012 at 8:26am

"you need to get past it"  thats the one I hate

Comment by Susie Q on March 10, 2012 at 12:40pm

My addition is 'You should stop wearing your wedding ring - your husband's gone, you know'.

Oh that's right - it must have slipped my mind !!

Comment by gcortez55 on February 11, 2012 at 8:11pm

robin you are so hilarious in these takes!!!! u say them perfect! are u sure u haven't said these yourself to other widows!?!?!

Comment by Soaring Spirits on February 7, 2012 at 9:03am

Sheryl, when people told me Gavin was "in a better place," I would laugh privately, because I wanted to say, "REALLY? He's in PARIS?" I found a way to laugh at my own dumb jokes even in those tense moments... LOL. THAT is like me!

Comment by Sheryl-momof4 on February 7, 2012 at 6:57am

Ok, I have to admit that I didn't think I had heard anything that I thought was too stupid from those I I watched this I realized I have heard almost ALL of these comments!!  LOL!  My answer to those that tell me that he is in a "better" place is "No, a BETTER place is next to me in my bed!"

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