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Books Written by People Widowed in this Way

This collection of books were written by a person whose loved one experienced the type of death noted for the category on which the book is included. The topics covered are varied, but will relate to some aspect of the widowed experience. A mix of titles from all categories will be included in this section of our book library, and have not in all cases been individually vetted by the Soaring Spirits Program Team.

100 Acts of Love: A Girlfriend’s Guide to Loving Your Friend Through Cancer

by Kim Hamer

A Grief Observed

by C.S. Lewis

August Farewell: The Last Sixteen Days of a Thirty-Three-Year Romance

by David G. Hallman

Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir

by Paul Monette

Dancing in Two Realms

by Anne Marie Higgins

Happily Even After

A Guide to Getting Through and Beyond the Grief of Widowhood

by Carole Brody Fleet

Leaning into Love

A Spiritual Journey Through Grief

by Elaine Mansfield

Widows Wear Stilettos

A Practical and Emotional Guide for the Young Widow

by Carole Brody Fleet

Worth Fighting For: Love, Loss, and Moving Forward

by Lisa Niemi Swayze

Psychoeducational Books

The books included in our psychoeducational category are written by a person with an educational background in a mental health field, and have been vetted by our Soaring Spirits Program Team. The authors of these books may or may not be widowed, but the concepts included in their books will offer valuable resources to anyone mourning a person who has died.

A to Z Healing Toolbox

A to Z Healing Toolbox

A Practical Guide for Navigating Grief and Trauma with Intention

by Susan Hannifin-MacNab, MSW

African American Grief

by Paul Rosenblatt, PhD & Beverly Wallace, PhD, MDiv, MEd

Anxiety the missing stage of grief

The Missing Stage of Grief

by Claire Bidwell-Smith, LCPC

Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief

by Joanne Cacciatore, PhD

Different after You: Rediscovering Yourself and Healing after Grief and Trauma

by Michele Neff Hernandez

Getting Grief Right

by Patrick O'Malley, PhD

Grief Day By Day: Simple Practices and Daily Guidance for Living with Loss

by Jan Warner, MC

Grief is a Journey: Finding Your Path Through Loss

by Ken Doka, PhD

Healing Trauma

by Peter Levine, PH.D.

How to Go on Living When Someone You Love Dies

by Therese Rando, Ph.D.

I Wasn’t Ready to Say Goodbye

Surviving, Coping, and Healing after the Death of a Loved One

by Brooke Noel & Pamela Blair, PhD

I Wasn’t Ready to Say Goodbye, 2nd Ed.: A Companion Workbook

by Brooke Noel & Pamela Blair, PhD

Invisible Heroes

Survivors of Trauma and How they Heal

by Belleruth Naparstek, ACSW

Little Ways to Keep Calm and Carry On

Twenty Lessons for Managing Worry, Anxiety, and Fear

by Mark Reinecke, PH.D.

Mind-Body Workbook for PTSD

A 10 Week Program for Healing After Trauma

by Stanley H. Block, MD. & Carolyn Bryant Block

On Grief and Grieving

by Elizabeth Kubler Ross, M.D. & David Kessler

Seven Choices: Finding Daylight After Loss Shatters Your World

Finding Daylight after Loss Shatters Your World

by Elizabeth Harper Neeld, PhD.

The Body Keeps The Score: Brain, Mind and Body in the Healing of Trauma

by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D.

The Grief Recovery Handbook

by John James & Russell Friedman

The Healing Power of the Breath: Simple Techniques to Reduce Stress and Anxiety, Enhance Concentration and Balance Your Emotions

by Richard Brown, MD & Patricia Gerbarg, MD

The Post-Traumatic Insomnia Workbook: A Step-by-Step Program for Overcoming Sleep Problems After Trauma

by Karin and Laurel Thompson and Franklin

The Posttraumatic Growth Workbook

by Richard Tedeschi, PhD & Bret Moore, PsyD, ABPP

The PTSD Solution: The Truth About Your Symptoms and How to Heal

by Alan D. Wolfelt, PH.D., C.T.

Thriving Through Crisis: Turn Tragedy and Trauma into Growth and Change

by Bill O'Hanlon

Transforming Traumatic Grief: Six Steps to Move from Grief to Peace After the Sudden or Violent Death of a Loved One.

by Courtney Armstrong, M.Ed., LPC

Peer Recommendations

Our peer recommendation category offers a space within our library for community members to recommend books related to grief and widowhood that they've found valuable. These books are not individually vetted, but have helped a widowed person who took the time to recommend the book to others.

A Beacon of Hope- A journal for life after loss

by Nisha Cohen

A Grief Observed

by C.S. Lewis

A Life Continued

by Donna Marie Easter

A Right Brain Awakening: What Grief Taught a Heartbroken Engineer

by John Lodal

A Widow’s Guide to Healing

by Kristin Meekhof & James Windell

A Widow’s Story: A Memoir

by Joyce Carol Oates

At Death Do Us Part: A Grieving Widower Heals After Losing his Wife to Breast Cancer

by Frederick Marx

At the Helm: The Young Widow’s Journey from Struggle to Strength

by Audra O'Neil

August Farewell: The Last Sixteen Days of a Thirty-Three-Year Romance

by David G. Hallman

Available As Is: A Midlife Widow’s Search for Love

by Debbie Weiss

Don’t Take My Grief Away From Me

by Doug Manning

Everything Happens For a Reason…And Other Lies I’ve Loved

by Kate Bowler

Healing After Loss

Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief

by Martha W. Hickman

Healing Your Traumatized Heart

100 Practical Ideas After Someone You Love Dies A Sudden, Violent Death

by Alan D. Wolfelt PH.D.

How to Survive the Loss of a Love

by Melba Colgrove, Harold H. Bloomfield & Peter McWilliams

Learning to Be Me Without You

by Paula Freeman

Life Without Lisa

by Richard Ballo

Living When a Loved One Has Died

by Earl Grollman

Love Is a Mix Tape: Life and Loss, One Song at a Time

by Rob Sheffield

Loving Grief

by Paul Bennett

Not in My Family: AIDS in the African-American Community

by Gil L. Robertson IV

Open to Hope: Inspirational Stories for Handling the Holidays After Loss

by Dr. Gloria Horsley & Dr. Heidi Horsley

Ramblings of a Forty-Something Widow

by Joanne Hattersley

Re-arranged, Never the Same: The Nature of Grief

by Deva Joy Gouss L.C.S.W.

Remembering with Love

Messages of Hope for the First Year of Grieving and Beyond

by Elizabeth Levang & Sherokee Isle

Safe Passage

by Molly Fumia

Saturday Night Widows: The Adventures of Six Friends Remaking Their Lives

by Becky Aikman

Smacked: A Story of White-Collar Ambition, Addiction, and Tragedy

by Eilene Zimmerman

Surviving: Finding Your Way from Grief to Healing

by Gary Sturgis

The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss

by Hope Edelman

The Best Day the Worst Day: Life with Jane Kenyon

by Donald Hall

The Boxer’s Corner: A Cancer Caregiver’s Story of Love, Loss, and Isolation

by Miguel Barron

The Darker the Night, the Brighter the Stars

A Neuropsyhologist's Odyssey Through Consciousness

by Paul Broks

The Hospice Doctor’s Widow: A Journal

by Jennifer O'Brien

The Language of Loss: Poetry and Prose for Grieving and Celebrating the Love of Your Life

by Barbara Abercrombie

The Little Book of Trauma Healing

by Carolyn Yoder

The More or Less Definitive Guide to Self-Care

by Anna Borges

The Promise: The Stories of Four Burn Pit Survivor Families Who Found Friendship in Their Fight to Win the Largest Veteran Medical Bill in American History

by Kimberly Hughes, Kevin Hensley, & Gina Cancelino

The Smallest Lights in the Universe: A Memoir

by Sara Seager

The Sudden Loss Survival Guide: Seven Essential Practices for Healing Grief

by Chelsea Hanson

The Widowed Dancer: Growing Through Grief With Gratitude

by Bryan Martin

The Widower’s Journey: Helping Men Rebuild After Their Loss

by Herb Knoll

Through Death to Life

by Ron Gries

Until It Wasn’t

by Sharon Neff

When Breath Becomes Air

by Paul Kalanithi, MD

When You Lose Someone You Love: A Journey Through The Heart of Grief

by Susan Squellati Florence

When Your Spouse Dies

A concise and practical source of help and advice

by Cathleen Curry

Widower to Widower: Surviving the End of Your Most Important Relationship

by Fred Colby

Widowish: A Memoir

Available 2/1/2021

by Melissa Gould

Wife, Widow, Now What?: How I Navigated the Cancer World and How You Can, Too

by Rachel Engstrom, M.S.W., C.H.E.S.

Yes, and.: A Journey of Hope through Tragedy

by Matthew Croke

You Can’t Do It Alone

by Maria Quiban Whitesell

Your Grief, Your Way

by Shelby Forsythia

Your Own Path Through Grief: A workbook for your journey to recovery

by Jill Johnson-Young, LCSW

Camp Widow Presenter Books

Soaring Spirits' flagship program, Camp Widow, has been supported by a huge group of volunteer presenters who have shared their personal experiences, their wisdom, and their hearts with our community at any of our camp events. These books are all written by an author who has donated their time to at least one camp weekend. We list their books, which have not been individually vetted, to thank them for the generous support and to offer a broader audience access to the lessons they've taught onsite at Camp Widow.

100 Acts of Love: A Girlfriend’s Guide to Loving Your Friend Through Cancer

by Kim Hamer

Dancing in Two Realms

by Anne Marie Higgins

Finding Peace, One Piece at a Time

by Rachel Kodanaz

Four Funerals and a Wedding

by Jill Smolowe

From Heartbreak to Wholeness

by Kristine Carlson

From Scratch

by Tembi Locke

Grief Quest

A Workbook and Journal to Heal the Grieving Heart

by I.J. Weinstock

Happily Even After

A Guide to Getting Through and Beyond the Grief of Widowhood

by Carole Brody Fleet

How to Carry What Can’t Be Fixed: A Journal for Grief

by Megan Devine

It’s OK That You’re Not OK

Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture that Doesn't Understand

by Megan Devine

Leaning into Love

A Spiritual Journey Through Grief

by Elaine Mansfield

Letters to the Widowed Community

by Kerry Phillips

Life Worth Living

by Michelle Hoffman

Living with Loss, One Day at a Time

by Rachel Kodanaz

Lost & Found: Finding Life After Death

Finding Life After Death

by Reider Lyne

My Husband is Not a Rainbow

by Kelley Lynn Shepherd

Second Firsts

by Christina Rasmussen

The Alchemy of Loss

by Abigail Carter

The Grief Practice

by Monique Minahan

The Healing Hand

Five Discussions to Have With the Dying Who are Living

by Sue Knight Deutsch

The Unedited Heart: Letters on Loss

by Monique Minahan

Widowed 2.

Now I Live

by John Polo

Widowed.

Rants, Raves and Randoms

by John Polo

Widows Wear Stilettos

A Practical and Emotional Guide for the Young Widow

by Carole Brody Fleet

Widows’ Words

Women Write on the Experience of Grief, The First Year, The Long Haul, and Everything in Between

by Alice Goode-Elman, Kelli Dunham & Penelope Dugan

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