On a bad day I try to keep busy. I avoid doing anything to further distress myself and convince myself that tomorrow will hopefully be a better day. Sometimes a good cry helps.
I haven’t found anything that helps for the whole day and I’m not sure it’s a comfort, but when I’m having a really bad grief moment, I have a cardboard box I kick around.
An art supplies box I got several months back — that my two cats like to play in — has become the target of numerous angry grief-related kicks over the weeks.
When my precious kittens are not in it, of course!
Kicking it helps release a lot of anger and frustration. Then watching the cats chase it down and jump in after I kick it gives an extra moment of relief of the heartache.
David W says
Posted on August 30, 2022 0
Busy sucks
only1sue says
Posted on July 9, 2022 0
On a bad day I try to keep busy. I avoid doing anything to further distress myself and convince myself that tomorrow will hopefully be a better day. Sometimes a good cry helps.
heartbroken artist says
Posted on July 6, 2022 0
I haven’t found anything that helps for the whole day and I’m not sure it’s a comfort, but when I’m having a really bad grief moment, I have a cardboard box I kick around.
An art supplies box I got several months back — that my two cats like to play in — has become the target of numerous angry grief-related kicks over the weeks.
When my precious kittens are not in it, of course!
Kicking it helps release a lot of anger and frustration. Then watching the cats chase it down and jump in after I kick it gives an extra moment of relief of the heartache.