I just scrolled through a few of the messages. We all seem to have the same feelings: sad, lonely, feeling forgotten by those we once heard from all of the time. I lost my husband of almost 43 years to stage 4 colon cancer on August 5, 2020. He was 81 years young and I say that because up until he turned 80 and was diagnosed with his cancer he walked 2-3 times daily, mowed the yard, etc. He said when he turned 80 he felt like someone just yanked a switch and all went wrong. I am turning 65 in April, so with our age difference, I figured this day would come but I just wasn't prepared for it. I'm just hoping with all of the resources in Soaring Spirits/Widowed Village that I can find some comfort as I continue coming to peace on my own with what happened that terrible day in August of 2020. Thank you all who have stopped to read my message and thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to reply.
KimberlyS says
Posted on March 28, 2021 0
I am very sorry for your loss and wish you to know that you are very much not alone as you walk though these days. I too lost my husband of 41 years to cancer, and as much as we thought we had prepared over many conversations, you are truly never really prepared. There are so many unknowns. Loss is loss, and its a terrible thing regardless. I have found this site to be a place of comfort and hope and I hope you do as well.
Sharon W says
Posted on March 26, 2021 0
I am so sorry. You are right, the people here have those feelings and take the time to ‘listen’ to others who are suffering as well. I’m new to being a widow, but not new to loss, as my husband began the slow progression of Lewy Body Dementia over 2 years ago. Even knowing he would go, it was still devastating. This is a great place, brings you understanding and hope.