Dee1960 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion SEPTEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"September 16th our wedding anniversary, 24 years.. "
5 minutes ago
shellybean replied to shellybean's discussion Guilty about therapy
"Thank you, kat! I actually have *FINALLY* made my intake appointment, last week. It isn't until late October, because that was the earliest appointment they had. But this month has been *SO* bad…"
2 hours ago
kat replied to shellybean's discussion Guilty about therapy
"I know this was posted a while ago but I just saw it - for me, I was 25 when I became a widow (no children- all future milestones ripped away) - and I immediately started therapy twice a week (still…"
2 hours ago
shellybean posted a photo

Denim Cathedral Quilt

This is the quilt I'm making for Marcus's mom for her birthday in November. This is the backside. I finished sewing together the denim strips today. It is just the size of my queen bed. Now to start…
2 hours ago
Maria replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I think people are trying hard to relate? which maybe can be thoughtful but they should really get a quick course in when to shut the f*** up!"
7 hours ago
Steve commented on Steve's blog post Do I REALLY want to find love again?
"Hi again, Diane.  Thank you!   I TOTALLY get your trepidation about another relationship.  I’m there now too.  Yes, I still have mom w me.  I’ve looked into…"
8 hours ago
Lal68 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi everyone, I have just joined and came upon this organisation by chance.  My husband Scott, 46 years old died suddenly on 21st July 2018.  We didn’t know it at the time but he had…"
8 hours ago
Ella replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Im new here and struggling  On August 26. Of this year my life came to a screeching hold. I received a call from an airport thousands of miles away telling me my husband who had been…"
9 hours ago
chef (John) commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Riet, It's OK to feel torn apart at five months, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I don't think it hurts to talk to your husband now--after seven years, I *still* talk to…"
10 hours ago
kat replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"The comparison to animals is ridiculous! I just had someone today tell me her dog passed and she knows what I am going through. Sometimes you just have to shake your head. I also had someone…"
10 hours ago