Good Morning Zoomers,
Just a quick note to tell you how much I appreciate all of you and our meetings.
It all started with Nancy, Mary and Jenny throwing me a lifeline which I grabbed on to!
It led to meeting all of you and feeling so loved and understood.
Your words of kindness and selfless sharing have helped me so much.
You have all given me hope for my future as well as all of ours.
Thank you from Sandi V 🙂
VeraW says
Posted on April 29, 2021 0
Sandi, I have been amazed at your positive outlook at such a short time into your grieving. I know it shows VeraW on my name, but I go by Joan from Vancouver. Confusing, I know.
E Sandi V says
Posted on April 30, 2021 0
Thank you Joan. In general, I have always had a positive outlook. However, this has been very challenging for me in the last months since my Andy died. I fake it, then I am exhausted and need time to regroup. I am noticing lately that slivers of the old Sandi have been peeking through and that is giving me hope. I take one day at a time and try to roll with my emotions instead of fighting them. I will miss him forever, but I must try to accept the reality that we are not together anymore. I don’t know how many years I have left, but I do not want to waste a moment. That is why I am starting college in the fall for a 2 year program in social work. I am hoping to help myself and others to move forward. Good luck , I wish for your burden to become lighter to carry.
Unavailable says
This comment has been removed.
E Sandi V says
Posted on May 1, 2021 0
Hi David. I understand exactly how you are feeling. I have also been cleaning up the “old stuff” while taking care of the “new stuff.” It has been extremely challenging because of my low energy. Grieving takes so much out of you and is exhausting. However, I stop and rest when I need to and continue when I can. I try not to be too hard on myself and understand my needs. I must tell you that with every “win” I feel stronger and more capable. Not sure how I will be able to handle the courses, but I won’t know until I try. If I can, great. If it’s too much I will acknowledge that. I’m taking one day at a time. Good luck. Thank you for being there for me.
JaneM says
Posted on April 26, 2021 0
Awe Sandi. I have so enjoyed seeing you every Saturday and hearing from you. I feel a very special connection to you, and am so grateful for that.
So many thanks,
Jane
Unavailable says
This comment has been removed.