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Coping with Additional Losses

Started this discussion. Last reply by Aeleice Jun 7, 2013. 3 Replies

Last year July of 2012 my husband passed away, four days later my owner/office manager passed away.  Four days before my husband passed I had to put one of my fur babies down that I had for 13…Continue


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I am a Veteran and a Widow, I have 3 beautiful grandchildren that currently live with me along with my daughters, although they have been a tremendous amount of support they have not gone through this and do not fully understand. I write but have never started a blog maybe I should take my writings and transfer them to a blog, mmmm, one day I will when I am ready to share.

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18 Months and back to Day 1

Posted on February 5, 2014 at 3:34am 3 Comments

I have wrote about my husband, Steve and how he passed away, yesterday they started Depositions and I spent 4 hours going over our life together 11 years and I did really good until we got to the accident and then the last few days of his life.  Having to tell what happened again and going over the details tore me up.  What got to me worse than anything else was the Doctor was there and it seemed like they did not even care, there was no sign or indication they were even sorry I lost my…


Conflict Within

Posted on January 20, 2014 at 6:09am 4 Comments

I know most of my blogs are what I have been through and what I have learned but this one is just a little different and it is about someone that is still alive.

In 2010 when my Husband Steve had his accident he was in STICU for 2 weeks, well the very first day I was at the hospital I met a lady and her husband was in the same unit, right across from my husband.  They had both been in motorcycle accidents and…


End of COunseling and my Life goes on

Posted on December 26, 2013 at 9:37am 0 Comments

Just before Christmas I had my last session with my CBT counselor and he said I have come a very long way but he thinks I will do fine.  I just have to remember that if I start isolating myself, I am to get myself out.  I am not allowed to avoid, if I do, find a way to face the issue.  Just about every obstacle I was facing I was able to overcome and I feel pretty good about it. 

Music was the one obstacle that seemed to be the block that may only take time to over come.  My last…


And the Counseling Journey Continues

Posted on November 8, 2013 at 3:22am 1 Comment

My counselor, Tom, now has me in the Imaginative part of the counseling.  Originally, I was supposed to write out a memory with as much detail as possible and record it and play it back every day.  Now I am to write it out every day, since music seems to trigger the strongest emotional responses Tom decided we would start there but to avoid the group and song that really rips me apart, at least for now.

 Here is the first memory:


Driving down the highway, Steve and I…


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At 4:32pm on November 28, 2013, Asha said…

Hi Aeleice,

Thanks for adding me and leaving a nice note. I too suffer from anxiety attacks and was thinking of starting therapy when I read your recent blog posts. The fact that it is helping you gave me hope and I have started going for sessions since last week. Hoping it works for me too!

You take care of yourself. Hugs.

At 3:50pm on May 22, 2013, irish(Maggie) said…


My husband and I are from OHIO and he was a BIG BUCKEYE  fan.. and Browns, the Browns backer club here in dallas named him " BIGGEST DAWG FAN" last year,,just weeks after he died suddenly in his sleep

At 4:44am on May 16, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
I'm so sorry you are a widow also:(. It"s such a shock! I'll write
More tonight! Cathy. I'm from ALABAMA so I have to say it ROLL TIDE!:)
At 10:17am on May 15, 2013, Tanya said…

I am sorry for your loss, but so glad you found Widowed Village.  You will find great  support here from people that truly understand.


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