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Alma
  • Female
  • Mount Ephraim, NJ
  • United States
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On this date

Started this discussion. Last reply by Alma Jan 27. 4 Replies

Six months ago I lost my husband to suicide. My heart still feels shattered in a million little pieces. I miss him desperately and don't know what my life is supposed to be when my purpose was so…Continue

Getting through my first Christmas

Started this discussion. Last reply by Alma Jan 5. 3 Replies

Is really challenging. Absolutely nothing is the same as last year. Nothing. And tomorrow marks five months since my husband died. Can it all just be over? I want to just cry but the heaviness is so…Continue

I miss him

Started this discussion. Last reply by Mrs.Linda Jan 13. 10 Replies

Desperately. My husband always had the holidays off. Ten days of doing nothing much at all together. I don't know how I will get through it this year.Continue

It's so much

Started this discussion. Last reply by Alma 8 hours ago. 12 Replies

My husband died by suicide on July 26, 2019. One month and five days after his 48th birthday. We had been married just over 27 years. I just can't believe that part of my life is over. I can't…Continue

 

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Alma replied to Alma's discussion It's so much
"Born and raised in South Jersey."
8 hours ago
Jen511 replied to Alma's discussion It's so much
"You are in jersey?  We should meet up sometime.  I will figure out how to send my email to you privately."
9 hours ago
Alma replied to Alma's discussion It's so much
"I live in Camden County"
9 hours ago
Jen511 replied to Alma's discussion It's so much
"I have 2 daughters ages 18 and 21, and a 10 year old son with high functioning Aspergers.  Where do you live we are in NJ."
9 hours ago
Alma replied to Alma's discussion It's so much
"It is very hard and lonely. And I hate weekends too. For the first time in my life I look forward to Monday. I have two sons and they are both adults. Only one still lives at home. I am fortunate that I can cry whenever I need to. I am also in…"
9 hours ago
Jen511 replied to Alma's discussion It's so much
"Thank you for your response Alma.  I am very sorry for your loss as well.  How are you doing?  I am trying to keep it together for my 3 kids but it is very hard and lonely.  People try to help but they don’t really…"
10 hours ago
Alma replied to Alma's discussion It's so much
"I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my husband to suicide July 26, 2019. He had just turned 48. I was 46 at the time of his passing. We had been married just over 27 years."
11 hours ago
Jen511 replied to Alma's discussion It's so much
"My husband died from suicide on 8/23/2019, 2 days before his 50th birthday.  We were married for 24 years and together since college."
13 hours ago
Alma replied to Alma's discussion On this date
"Thank you. Hugs to you as well."
Jan 27
Lisa_says replied to Alma's discussion On this date
"I am sorry for your loss and your pain.  I lost my husband to cancer a year ago.  I hope this site helps to bring you comfort. You are not alone.  Hugs sent to you"
Jan 27
Alma replied to Alma's discussion On this date
"Thank you. And I am so sorry for your loss as well."
Jan 27
Pooh898 replied to Alma's discussion On this date
"Im sorry for your hurt. I still feel this way everyday it will be a year for me next month. I hope that you find some comfort knowing that you are not alone and that I understand your pain. "
Jan 26
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Six months ago I lost my husband to suicide. My heart still feels shattered in a million little pieces. I miss him desperately and don't know what my life is supposed to be when my purpose was so wrapped up in being his wife.I still love him. With all of my heart. I wish I could turn back the clock and get him not to leave me. I need him.See More
Jan 26
Alma replied to Dee1960's discussion Wedding Rings -- why wear them?
"For everyone it is different. I took off mine two weeks after my husband passed. But, he died from suicide so I have struggled with feeling rejected."
Jan 23
Alma replied to Maggiepie's discussion Rebirth and connection
"I can only speak of my own experience. My grandmother passed away 36 years ago and she is still with me and other family members. That is her job in the afterlife. I believe we all serve a higher purpose. Now and later. Some when they die are reborn…"
Jan 15
Alma replied to Maggiepie's discussion Rebirth and connection
"My beliefs are a little more in depth than that but, I will say if your loved has been rebirthed  you could connect with them but not as they were. You wouldn't know them per se but you may get that feeling of " you feel you have…"
Jan 14

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At 9:58pm on October 10, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Alma. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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