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Alone
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  • Essex
  • United Kingdom
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Alone replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Tate I'm in the UK too. I'm so sorry for your terrible loss I really am. My husband died very suddenly 12 weeks ago at work. I still feel traumatised and am re living the knock on the door from the police officers. Grief is…"
May 30
Alone replied to Rich's discussion What's the point?
"I understand this too. This weekend has dragged on and on and without my dear little dog I wouldn't have coped. Ive just been in my dining room to look at steves chair exactly as he left it 10 weeks ago tonight. 10 whole weeks of waiting for…"
May 14
Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"And ...tonight I was out walking one of my fur babies. And another dog walker who knew Steve and knew he died suddenly said this.. N. "Oh how are you" Me " taking each hour at a time really " N " what happened about Steve in…"
May 9
Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Imogen xxx I think I've missed a lot of replies here but wanted to say I understand how hurt you are. That is totally unforgivable. This is a different situation but last week I had someone steve knew knock my door and ask if Steve lived here…"
May 8
Alone replied to cindy292's discussion The Effect of Pets
"Hello Imogen xx I'm the same as you, always been close to animals and as a child I was happiest with them instead of friends. I understand your words it would be nicer or just bring a ghost of a smile if people were nice, kinder and…"
May 8
Alone replied to Jill's discussion What's scaring you these days?
"I'm scared of my dogs dying Scared of me dying and leaving them. Scared of losing my son he's all the family I have left. I'm scared of being ill. Scared of being alone for however long I have but do not want anyone else.That…"
May 2
Alone replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Leeky I'm so very sorry too. My husband died suddenly on march 6th. We were together 32 years. I understand what you say about handling it better some weeks than others. I'm afraid I don't have any words of wisdom I just wanted…"
May 2
Alone replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Widow Brain: have you done anything DUMB or unusual?
"Me neither xx sending a hug from the UK xxx"
Apr 29
Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Sadly no Susan it's my sons partner she is 31, just adds to the loneliness :("
Apr 29
Alone replied to Susan's discussion How Do You Live As Half of a Person...
"Sending you an understanding hug Susan xxxx thank you xxx I will keep checking in too. What a life! How could this happen???? xxxx hugs xxxx"
Apr 29
Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Today I was told these words .... " my mum knows how lonely you feel Dad is on holiday for 2 weeks and the house is quiet" :-/ Sadly that was from my sons partner."
Apr 29
Alone replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Mary xx I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband Rick xx What a terrible disease Alzheimer's is and for it to affect younger people too is just heartbreaking. Your words caught my eye tonight. I lost my husband very suddenly and…"
Apr 29
Alone replied to Susan's discussion How Do You Live As Half of a Person...
"Hello Susan I'm so sorry for your loss and terrible grief xxx I am exactly that half a person. I lost Steve and I've lost me somewhere too. I actually feel more like some kind if little lost ghost drifting around and completely invisible.…"
Apr 29
Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Introduction
"Imogen xx I have only just seen your story here. I feel for you so much. What a dreadful thing to happen and I do understand some of what you are feeling. I had no time to say goodbye either Steve just never came home from work. I had the police at…"
Apr 26
Alone replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Widow Brain: have you done anything DUMB or unusual?
"Averysmom xx I am just the same as you. My memory is shot to pieces I literally am finding it difficult to function with work and I keep using the wrong words in a sentence it's awful and yes it's terrible on top of this raw and unbearable…"
Apr 25
Alone replied to cindy292's discussion The Effect of Pets
"Imogen xx I totally understand your words. I am much closer to animals than people. Steve and I adored our three dogs. It breaks my heart he isn't here to love them anymore. He worried along with me if they were ill but was always the optimist…"
Apr 25

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