"I feel just the same Raven2017. People who have not lost their spouse just do not get it which i suppose is understandable but when they pretend to it's so annoying and hurtful. I'm tired of people and their thoughtless comments. I'm…"
"Hello Tate I'm in the UK too. I'm so sorry for your terrible loss I really am. My husband died very suddenly 12 weeks ago at work. I still feel traumatised and am re living the knock on the door from the police officers.
"I understand this too. This weekend has dragged on and on and without my dear little dog I wouldn't have coped. Ive just been in my dining room to look at steves chair exactly as he left it 10 weeks ago tonight. 10 whole weeks of waiting for…"
"And ...tonight I was out walking one of my fur babies. And another dog walker who knew Steve and knew he died suddenly said this..
N. "Oh how are you"
Me " taking each hour at a time really "
N " what happened about Steve in…"
I think I've missed a lot of replies here but wanted to say I understand how hurt you are. That is totally unforgivable.
This is a different situation but last week I had someone steve knew knock my door and ask if Steve lived here…"
"Hello Imogen xx
I'm the same as you, always been close to animals and as a child I was happiest with them instead of friends. I understand your words it would be nicer or just bring a ghost of a smile if people were nice, kinder and…"
"I'm scared of my dogs dying
Scared of me dying and leaving them.
Scared of losing my son he's all the family I have left.
I'm scared of being ill.
Scared of being alone for however long I have but do not want anyone else.That…"
"Hello Leeky I'm so very sorry too. My husband died suddenly on march 6th. We were together 32 years. I understand what you say about handling it better some weeks than others. I'm afraid I don't have any words of wisdom I just wanted…"
"Hello Mary xx
I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband Rick xx
What a terrible disease Alzheimer's is and for it to affect younger people too is just heartbreaking.
Your words caught my eye tonight. I lost my husband very suddenly and…"
"Hello Susan I'm so sorry for your loss and terrible grief xxx
I am exactly that half a person. I lost Steve and I've lost me somewhere too. I actually feel more like some kind if little lost ghost drifting around and completely invisible.…"
I have only just seen your story here. I feel for you so much. What a dreadful thing to happen and I do understand some of what you are feeling. I had no time to say goodbye either Steve just never came home from work. I had the police at…"
I am just the same as you. My memory is shot to pieces I literally am finding it difficult to function with work and I keep using the wrong words in a sentence it's awful and yes it's terrible on top of this raw and unbearable…"