Judy, Alex and Cornelius Roeland It was over 24 years ago that I first laid eyes on Judy, I was with friends at a nightclub in NYC Emerald City. I saw a girl that I knew Valerie, she said hello and…Continue
How is it possible to move on? I know i will for Dillon's sake (my17 yr old son) but how does it work out? I think of all the things that we all did an after losing Alex (19) and now Judy my wife of…Continue
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2 years, 8 months and 11 days later
Things still can rock me to the core. I just wanted to write about my Brother-in-law, and the nasty text he wrote me, but this is really about me. It is about thinking you are just fine and really not being just that! I miss that warm place of my wife's embrace. The embrace when the world seemed to be closing in on me, and she would just hug me and say "its ok babe as long…Continue
Judy, Alex and Cornelius Roeland
It was over 24 years ago that I first laid eyes on Judy, I was with friends at a nightclub in NYC Emerald City. I saw a girl that I knew Valerie, she said hello and she told me who she was with, as she looked over her shoulder there was Judy! She had a small wall in front of her, she was wearing a white halter top and I was immediately drawn to her. I said to Val, “hook me up she is cute” I remember Valerie’s exact words, yea she is cute, you too…Continue
Well I am at one year plus since the loss of My wife Judy, and 19 year old son Alex. We did not have a perfect life but it was good enough to make us happy. We all loved each other, losing the 2 of them in 2 months really crushed me as well as Dillon my other son (18 now). Here i am sitting around after 47 yrs of being alive and went from a family of 4 to a family of 2, plus now Mom is here as Dad died only 2 months after my wife. I said I would take care of her and she will live with me…Continue