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First Valentine's Day

Posted on February 14, 2012 at 1:00pm 1 Comment

Today is a toughie.  Today would have been our fifth one.  Last year sucked, we got into a stupid argument at the restaurant while having dinner.  I think there were too many drinks involved.  I always thought this year would be so much better, like the years before.  From 2008-2010 we had awesome Valentine's Day celebrations.  He surprised me with a room full of champagne, balloons, candy and chocolate covered strawberries in 2009.  In 2010 we had a weekend away and had such a beautiful…

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Posted on December 27, 2011 at 11:25pm 5 Comments

I met Will in April 2007.  He had just turned 20 and I was 21.  We met at a club that I had never been to before and had not gone back since.  Our meeting was completely by chance and when we exchanged numbers, I didn't think much of it.  When he called me a couple of days later, I knew that there was something special there.  It was like our souls recognized each other.  We had so much fun and we in love so deeply and it was as if we were meant to be.  He fit me and I fit him.  I saw him…

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At 12:02pm on June 6, 2012,
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Hey lady! Hope you get some heartfelt little hugs today on your birthday, and that you take a moment to celebrate YOU. No matter what, you are STILL YOU.

At 3:38am on May 8, 2012, Greggies Widow said…

<3 ya sweetie

At 1:53am on March 28, 2012, Greggies Widow said…

LOVIN the new profile pic.

<3 ya!

At 5:53pm on February 14, 2012, smit09 said…

feel the same way today hun!

At 7:10pm on January 25, 2012, smit09 said…

your story, and my story, so similar its scary.

I feel you girl.

At 11:45am on January 3, 2012, CrazyWidow said…

Thanks for finding and joining us over at Born in the 80s.  Love and hugs to you today.

At 6:35am on December 27, 2011, Morena said…
I'm in MD also. Inbox me. Perhaps we can meet sometime.
At 9:54pm on December 22, 2011, Michelle said…
Hey Girly. Just sent u friend request. We have a lot in common. Would love to talk with you.
At 7:53am on December 20, 2011, Joyce said…

Black Lotus:  Everyone here understands.  In the past I have met widows and widowers and I always offer my sympathy.  But unfortunately until it happens to us we really don't understand.  I'm so glad you found this site, you will find people in you exact situation and that is always helpful.   ((Hugs)))  My husband Tom died October 11 of this year after a battle with cancer.   I just wish I could sleep through the holidays.

At 12:08am on December 20, 2011, Greggies Widow said…

Your photos are beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing them and your story with us. I am so glad that you found Widowed Village and our Unwedded Widows group. This is a great place with wonderful people who will love on, support, encourage and travel this journey with you sweetie. I am so sorry for the circumstances that brought you to us, but i am glad that you are here. God Bless.

 
 
 

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