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At 6:15pm on January 7, 2018, Pegg said…

Thank you for reaching out. I will have to do some research and see if there are any kind of groups like that in my area. I do go to a Survivor Group in my area and it's ok. I like to journal and blog a lot and that's where I find most of my healing takes place. Funny how we all have our own way to heal. But yes, I will probably never get used to being truly alone either. I'm still waiting to wake up from my bad dream. 

Again, thank you for taking time to say HI. And thank you for the help on groups. I appreciate it. 

At 3:40pm on January 5, 2018, Pegg said…

Thank you. Hoping to meet a couple friends that understand. 

At 4:03pm on April 13, 2017, Sharon said…

Thank you,Brucer. I try to just keep going, get up in the morning, shower, get to work, etc. I tell myself that I am strong, I will continue on with my life but I am lost. I am feeling so depressed. It's been 4 months since he died and there are still times that I can't believe he is gone.

At 1:10am on December 30, 2015, Karen said…
Im not sure exactly how to work this site yet but I'm sorry u lost your wife. I hope your holidays were good and u were surrounded by family that cares for you. Thanks again.
At 1:08am on December 30, 2015, Karen said…
Thanks for the caring message. Karen. I'm glad I found this site.
At 4:28pm on July 24, 2014, Jladybug said…

Thank you Bruce.  I am sorry for the loss of your wife.   Sounds like you went through somewhat of what we experienced. 

I was lucky enough to have him for 18 years from the time he was diagnosed.  Our kids were young and he was able to watch them grow up and see one of them married.  I think a lot of us would say "if only I had, or "if only we did".  It has been really hard the last 22 months but I am finally digging my way out and this site along with another one has helped me tremendously with knowing that I am not the only one feeling like I have lost my mind! 

At 9:39am on January 21, 2014, pinyoncreek said…

Thank you Brucer.  I hope so.  I operate pretty much a day at a time right i'm sure others do.  I'm still figuring out this site so I hopefully will be more active as time goes by.  Leslie

At 8:09pm on January 8, 2014, kats5380 said…

thank you

At 6:22am on January 7, 2014, countrylvnlady said…

Thank you... Still new to this site, this is the second time to be on here. I've joined two other groups after my husband past March 10,2010. The last month of last year and the beginning of this has been the worst time for me yet. Felt like I was in a dark hole. I have a lot of questions and don't want to just post them, I'm looking for answers, from someone about this grieving process.  Thank you, Heidi

At 7:29pm on January 6, 2014, Gigi said…
Thank you for taking the time to write a note. It's so hard, as you are well aware, to face each day and this site has helped me realize that I am not alone.

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