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Bruna.in.pain
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  • CAMPINAS, Sao paulo
  • Brazil
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Tess commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post When love becomes anger
"Hi Bruna. I just happened to see this latest post. I cannot even express how badly I feel for you. They would be such vacant words for me to tell you to hang in there, that there is a reason to live, to please not consider suicide, so I will not…"
Nov 1
DIVA70 commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post When love becomes anger
"I am so sorry for your loss and for the pain you are suffering. It is good that you have someone to talk to and this is a good site to vent. But there are times when we need professional help. I myself have been to some dark places since losing my…"
Oct 24
LadyG commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post When love becomes anger
"My Dear Bruna, I am so, so sad for you at the loss of your love.  You havre said so many things that i have gone through in the past 3 years. Alone and numb,  yes. Thoughts of suicide,  yes. Those were mostly in the first year. I…"
Oct 24
Callie2 commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post When love becomes anger
"Bruna, I am so sorry for your loss and the awful pain you are in right now. We’ve all been there. Anger seems to be a common response in some people. Have you looked into any other support such as group grief support or bereavement counseling?…"
Oct 24
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Bruna.in.pain commented on Lifeunknown17's blog post IT'S ALL IN THE NUMBERS
"We start to pay attention to things that have never been important before. A place, a number, a flower...the urge to have some connection and the despair of feeling attached to those things that are the few that bring us memories,Who could have…"
Sep 5
SweetMelissa2007 commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post A sunflower in heaven
"Analytical psychologist Carl Jung coined the term "synchronicity" to express the concept of "meaningful coincidences" with acasual connection of two or more psychic and physical phenomena ...They can happen throughout life,…"
Sep 5
Bruna.in.pain commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post A sunflower in heaven
"((Tess)), thank you for the reply...Sometimes I wonder if it´s something from my mind, if i´m creating it or if it´s a real sign. I just don´t know what to think. It´s being just 35 days. How long has it been for you??…"
Sep 4
Lifeunknown17 commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post A sunflower in heaven
"Very true Bruna. Sorry to hear your still having to deal with all the red tape / politics trying to get cause of death.  has to be awfully painful.  I for sure like the "sign". yep, we all ask for it,…"
Sep 4
DIVA70 commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post A sunflower in heaven
"First let me extend my sincere condolences on your loss. Please know that the questions you have now and the feelings you have are real. I understand as do others on this site. Here is a place where there is no judgement or condescension. Your…"
Sep 4
Tess commented on Bruna.in.pain's blog post A sunflower in heaven
"Bruna, I am so very sorry for the loss of your Dave. Those signs, such as the sunflower, I am convinced are sent by our loved ones. I have the same experiences and am sure it is my husband sending comfort to me. It doesn't sound like you had…"
Sep 3
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A sunflower in heaven

English is not my first language. Sorry for the mistakes.Today´s been 32 days since I´ve lost my sunflower. We still don´t know what was the cause of death since I´m dealing with a lot of red tape due to the fact he was not from here and came to this land only to marry me. I still remind the day I first saw him going out of the boarding gate, looking for me, full of hopes and dreams. I had never been happier in my life. Suddenly I had found the ONE I had been looking for...for my whole life. He…See More
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cgouch left a comment for Bruna.in.pain
"Its been 9 years for me and still look very fresh but life goes on,taking one day at a time ."
Aug 30
cgouch left a comment for Bruna.in.pain
"I am sorry about your husband demise,may his soul rest in peace,the lord is your strength. "
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"Good morning, Bruna.  How are you doing?  The early days can feel so confusing emotionally.  Just wanted to say hello.  My wife died 6 months ago.  It still seems surreal.  "
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When love becomes anger

Posted on October 14, 2018 at 3:24pm 4 Comments

Tomorrow is my husband´s birthday. He would be turning 51. Body hasn´t been released yet since August 2nd.

I´ve been reading a lot about the phases of grief and all those stuff to see if I can find myself on any of those posts... But no. Feeling most part of the time alone and numb, I´ve made a good friend here who talks to me. And I´ve hidden even from him my two suicide attempts in this time. Don´t know what´s going on, every day it goes I feel more and more anger and hate about my…

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When love becomes anger

Posted on October 14, 2018 at 3:22pm 0 Comments

Tomorrow is my husband´s birthday. He would be turning 51. Body hasn´t been released yet since August 2nd.

I´ve been reading a lot about the phases of grief and all those stuff to see if I can find myself on any of those posts... But no. Feeling most part of the time alone and numb, I´ve made a good friend here who talks to me. And I´ve hidden even from him my two suicide attempts in this time. Don´t know what´s going on, every day it goes I feel more and more anger and hate about my…

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A sunflower in heaven

Posted on September 3, 2018 at 4:53pm 5 Comments

English is not my first language. Sorry for the mistakes.

Today´s been 32 days since I´ve lost my sunflower. We still don´t know what was the cause of death since I´m dealing with a lot of red tape due to the fact he was not from here and came to this land only to marry me. I still remind the day I first saw him going out of the boarding gate, looking for me, full of hopes and dreams. I had never been happier in my life. Suddenly I had found the ONE I had been looking…

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At 7:43am on August 30, 2018, cgouch said…

Its been 9 years for me and still look very fresh but life goes on,taking one day at a time .

At 10:33pm on August 29, 2018, cgouch said…

I am sorry about your husband demise,may his soul rest in peace,the lord is your strength. 

At 9:25am on August 29, 2018, zavopup said…

Good morning, Bruna.  How are you doing?  The early days can feel so confusing emotionally.  Just wanted to say hello.  My wife died 6 months ago.  It still seems surreal.  

At 4:14pm on August 23, 2018, CinaBina said…

Hello BrunaPP thank you for adding me as a friend.  I'm sorry for your loss, how are you holding up?

At 9:12am on August 23, 2018, shellybean said…

Thanks for adding me as a friend, BrunaPP! I hope we can help each other on this grief journey. Much love and (((hugs))) to you from me!

At 7:42am on August 22, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, BrunaPP. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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