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Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I thought I was doing pretty good, in my own way. Until I talked to my brother-in-law last night. For some reason, the phone connection was acting up and we kept getting cut off. When we finally reconnected, he told me that he had called me and…"
Jul 13
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Glad to see you're still here, Terry! I was following your journey. I've made it through 1 3/4 years now. The acute pain is not so much, but the missing, the memories of everything are sometimes hard to manage. My life seems so alone and…"
Jul 9
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Thanks for your support, Hope! I try to be active but by the end of the week I often just don't have the energy or inclination. Time gets away from me and I "catch up" on the weekend. And anything extra, such as a trip out to see my…"
May 23
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Struggling with so many things right now - trying to care for my 95 yr old mom who lives 3 hrs away, being legally blind with an inoperable cataract that is aggravated by bright sunlight, financial stress as I discover that my salary will go down…"
May 7
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Terry and Flower, I am right there with you! I would love to be able to just go according to my own rhythm instead of trying to keep up with the rest of the world. And they soo don't get it! Everyone is so invested in you moving on according to…"
Mar 28
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"To Cindy, Hope, and Seaneen...yes, I hear you!!! I can't imagine looking too far into the future and seeing nothing there! I would like to have companionship again, but I want it to walk up to me. I am not about to start looking for someone! I…"
Mar 28
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"It seems like the fog is lifting. I can think more clearly! Some of you know that I am legally blind and that my husband was my "good" eyes. We used to go everywhere together and even mundane things became dates for use. Two places that we…"
Feb 5
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Hope, it's only been 15 months since my husband died but I also share your feelings. I miss him terribly, yet I am managing to go to work and I am actually figuring out how to take care of myself better lately. But the saness and loss is always…"
Jan 25
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Thanks, IBelieveinYou and seaneen9. I think that what you shared can be very comforting to those who are trying to figure out what just happened."
Oct 20, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Laurajay and IBelieveinYou, I feel like I am being shut down and redirected elsewhere to discuss a spiritual aspect of sudden death and grieving. I think the topic I posted is very germane, especially to sudden death. I had friends who asked me…"
Oct 20, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Solamente Mio, I have had similar experiences of communication from the afterlife as well. Those brief moments have come as signs such as pennies, thoughts in my head that I recognize as "not my own" and in his "flavor", as well…"
Oct 19, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"One Year Later.... My brother-in-law and I had the memorial for hubby this weekend. Last year when it happened, I was a basket case and no way was I going to be able to handle a funeral, so we put it off. A wise decision! A yeR AGO THERE WAS…"
Oct 17, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Paula's blog post Looking back from the perspective of 5 years
"It's only been a year for me. Reading this makes me feel so hopeful, like there is a point to this journey that I wasn't expecting to be on. That something beautiful can come from it after all."
Oct 14, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Mary H, thanks. I see you understand what I mean. I am not a weak or dependent person. Most people know, but I also think they may take advantage of that by not allowing me room to be less than that. Or they decide to take over my life. I will…"
Oct 13, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"The Year in Recap So, it's just about a year since hubby passed. My brother-in-law and I are having a memorial at the Brooklyn Botanic Garden. Just a few people...maybe 10 altogether. I can't believe the time has flown by, but this year…"
Oct 13, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"It's not the actual calendar date anniversary, which is October 9, but it feels like it's maybe the "52 weeks in a year" anniversary. I have been thinking of Al more than usual and feeling the emptiness. I long for the weekend…"
Oct 1, 2016

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At 10:42pm on June 3, 2016, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Bundles549. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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