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Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"So, I guess I'm in Year 3 now. What's been different for you in Year 3? So far, I am trying to declutter, have made an infinetessimal dent in handling Al's stuff. I managed to find some videos and books and paperwork to throw away,…"
Oct 25
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Lovely stories, Nieta!!"
Oct 11
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Nieta, the furry kids do their best to take care of me! The one who was "his" and would not allow herself to belong to any other, has taken me over, but still only on HER terms. MY boy is not too happy about the way she barges in and takes…"
Oct 11
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Nieta, We didn't have human children either but we did have a series of cats and my husband poured his parental heart into them! We and the cats were a little family together."
Oct 10
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Nieta and Maggie, it was so helpful to hear from you and to see that someone else has faced a similar train of thought. It's hard to feel that people still need an explanation from me of who my husband was...and they really don't get it. I…"
Oct 10
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"So today is the 2 Year Anniversary. I am at work, luckily it is a quiet day - because my head is not in it! It's raining outside. I have nothing planned for the day. Over the weekend I spent some time working on his room...rearranging a corner…"
Oct 9
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Flower, I am thinking about you and your wedding anniversary tomorrow. Do you have anything planned? October 9th is 2 years that my husband is gone. It's just another woek day for me. I am hoping to go on a Labyrinth Walk on Sunday, but it all…"
Oct 5
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"StarRover, I am right there with you!"
Sep 28
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Evolving, you really put it all into the right words! I am still making plans to do things, just bought a ticket to a chamber music concert for Sunday."
Sep 28
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Meme908, I also feel my husband's presence surrounding me. It is very comforting, especially because I am feeling buffetted by "real life" now."
Sep 27
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Being alone now is hard. I know that I need more in my life than just work and coming home to be with my 2 cats. But I am so disappointed in my female friends and, being married, I didn't have any male friends. This whole grief process has…"
Sep 27
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I thought I was doing pretty good, in my own way. Until I talked to my brother-in-law last night. For some reason, the phone connection was acting up and we kept getting cut off. When we finally reconnected, he told me that he had called me and…"
Jul 13
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Glad to see you're still here, Terry! I was following your journey. I've made it through 1 3/4 years now. The acute pain is not so much, but the missing, the memories of everything are sometimes hard to manage. My life seems so alone and…"
Jul 9
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Thanks for your support, Hope! I try to be active but by the end of the week I often just don't have the energy or inclination. Time gets away from me and I "catch up" on the weekend. And anything extra, such as a trip out to see my…"
May 23
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Struggling with so many things right now - trying to care for my 95 yr old mom who lives 3 hrs away, being legally blind with an inoperable cataract that is aggravated by bright sunlight, financial stress as I discover that my salary will go down…"
May 7
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Terry and Flower, I am right there with you! I would love to be able to just go according to my own rhythm instead of trying to keep up with the rest of the world. And they soo don't get it! Everyone is so invested in you moving on according to…"
Mar 28

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At 10:42pm on June 3, 2016, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Bundles549. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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