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Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hope, my husband of almost 40 years has been gone for a little over 15 months. I too have so many memories of our times together and there's no way that I can create 40 years of new memories to add to them. I know what you mean. And I want to…"
Dec 26, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Nardly, those memories are both a treasure and a knife in your heart! The love you had for your wife is shining through! Well, you don't know what's in store for 2017. Maybe you will find yourself on a beach for Christmas!"
Dec 25, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Mary H, at least the day is mostly over now. We got over the hurdle.I'm sorry you had to find that bad reminder of your husband, although maybe he was sending you a message that he was with you."
Dec 25, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Terry, I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. It's so hard when Christmas is now filled with a big empty hole. I did end up with the decorations up and the lights lit. My apartment is very, very quiet now...in a weird kind of way. Like I…"
Dec 25, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"So...the update on the CEU saga...I tried to reach the person that I had spoken to at the class and her phone number was not working,like constant busy signal and no voicemail. I had to try several diffrent numbers to find her and I had to go…"
Dec 16, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I am crying. Tears are streaming down my face. My throat is tight. It has been a horrible week. I am realizing that my CHAMPION is gone! And there is no replacement, not even close, not even in this universe at all. I am legally blind. I am…"
Dec 15, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Nardly, Jenny, Hope, Terry...yeah, too bad we're all scattered all over! I would definitely host a Christmas Eve get toghether!"
Dec 12, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Well....I put up the tree after all! I didn't think that I would...but after the post office decided to leave my boses by a mailbox on a post outside a building that is not my work address, and the work address was closed because it was…"
Dec 12, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Nardly, I feel your pain! Seems like the world is just passing us by! I have some new people in my life, friends who value me. But still, it's not like having family surrounding you. My brother has never done more than send a sympathy text…"
Dec 11, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I've been reading posts since last week, but haven't been able to post anything. Tech issues! Well, Thanksgiving was good this year, but I am having a tough time with Christmas! Al was the highlight of my Christmas. We would exchange gifts…"
Dec 11, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"My husband died on October 9, 2015. I survived the 2ns Thanksgiving without him. Last year I went to my Mom's house, with my brother-in-law, and we brought food from Boston Market. Worst food ever! I couldn't go through that again this…"
Nov 29, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Thanks, IBelieveinYou and seaneen9. I think that what you shared can be very comforting to those who are trying to figure out what just happened."
Oct 20, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Laurajay and IBelieveinYou, I feel like I am being shut down and redirected elsewhere to discuss a spiritual aspect of sudden death and grieving. I think the topic I posted is very germane, especially to sudden death. I had friends who asked me…"
Oct 20, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Solamente Mio, I have had similar experiences of communication from the afterlife as well. Those brief moments have come as signs such as pennies, thoughts in my head that I recognize as "not my own" and in his "flavor", as well…"
Oct 19, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"One Year Later.... My brother-in-law and I had the memorial for hubby this weekend. Last year when it happened, I was a basket case and no way was I going to be able to handle a funeral, so we put it off. A wise decision! A yeR AGO THERE WAS…"
Oct 17, 2016
Bundles549 commented on Paula's blog post Looking back from the perspective of 5 years
"It's only been a year for me. Reading this makes me feel so hopeful, like there is a point to this journey that I wasn't expecting to be on. That something beautiful can come from it after all."
Oct 14, 2016

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At 10:42pm on June 3, 2016, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Bundles549. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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