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It Is What It Is... Or It Is What I Make it

Posted on May 25, 2015 at 8:02pm 2 Comments

My husband, Jack, died 3 months ago.  It was not surprising yet I never expected him to die... and until the very end I don't think he believed he was dying either.  When he came to realize there was no bouncing back that last time he adopted the attitude of "It is what it is." 

You get to a point where the battle is over.  He did and when he got there he didn't complain, didn't bemoan his fate, he didn't even cry.  He laughed when he could, held me when I cried and in the end he…


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At 1:34pm on May 18, 2015, wannabmartha said…

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