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CinaBina
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  • Los Angeles, CA
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kat left a comment for CinaBina
"I know... I have been in my bed for an entire year just in denial of this horrible existence... Some say it gets easier to handle to pain or the load feels lighter, but going on year 2 I feel the load even more so. If you ever need to talk to…"
Sep 24
kat left a comment for CinaBina
"Hi CinaBina, I saw your comment on "Born in the 80s" and it didn't seem like anyone responded? I might be wrong... I am new to all this as well. I am actually part of the Born in the 90s group but it seems like there is more action…"
Sep 23
Sar_ML left a comment for CinaBina
"Thank you for your comment and the well wishes. We are taking it day by day but it's s hard adjusting and accepting this new reality when everything inside me wants to think it can't be true... it sounds like we both joined this 'club…"
Sep 4
CinaBina replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I'm sorry to hear that.  It's sucks planning your whole lives together, expecting to grow old with each other.  You are so strong to keep going for your children.  I'm a mess staying at home and avoiding everybody,…"
Jul 28
CinaBina commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Hello everyone, I am new to this website.  My husband unexpectedly passed away June 2018 and I'm hating my life.  Food doesn't taste right, things I use to enjoy I'm not liking, I get annoyed easily.  My attitude…"
Jul 27
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Jul 26
CinaBina replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thank you for your kind words.  It's nice talking with someone I can relate to(even though the situation sucks).  I understand that I can't really think clearly but people think because I'm a little "off" that they…"
Jul 26
CinaBina replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello, my husband passed away recently and I'm feeling a little lost, confused, and overwhelmed.  Friends and family mean well but they don't understand the daily struggle.  There's unnecessary stress on top of dealing with…"
Jul 26
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for CinaBina
"Welcome to Widville, CinaBina. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions…"
Jul 24

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At 7:32am on September 24, 2018, kat said…

I know... I have been in my bed for an entire year just in denial of this horrible existence... Some say it gets easier to handle to pain or the load feels lighter, but going on year 2 I feel the load even more so. If you ever need to talk to someone, I am here. 

At 9:29am on September 23, 2018, kat said…

Hi CinaBina,

I saw your comment on "Born in the 80s" and it didn't seem like anyone responded? I might be wrong... I am new to all this as well. I am actually part of the Born in the 90s group but it seems like there is more action on the 80s group. I became a widow at 25.  You asked if it got better - I just passed the year mark and unfortunately... it doesn't. I feel like the second year is harder for me than the first. Everyone is different though, and I hope you find a way to have hope. I am back living with my parents, on a leave of absence from graduate school. I spend every day in bed - just in intense grief and sorrow. I know this doesn't make you feel better, but maybe it will make you feel less alone? If you ever want to chat please reach out - my number is 941-468-4933. I love looking at your photos, and if you want to talk more about your husband please let me know, sharing stories seems to be the only soothing thing. Much love to you. 

At 3:29pm on September 4, 2018, Sar_ML said…

Thank you for your comment and the well wishes. We are taking it day by day but it's s hard adjusting and accepting this new reality when everything inside me wants to think it can't be true... it sounds like we both joined this 'club no one wants to join' around the same time. I'm sorry for the heartache you must be feeling too. 

At 8:04pm on July 24, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, CinaBina. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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