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CvilleSarah
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  • Charlottesville, VA
  • United States
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CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I’ve been kinda over people lately too, especially those who make comments that it seems like I’m doing well. They have absolutely no idea how little I want to be here, and how incredibly sad and lonely I am every minute of every day.…"
Monday
CvilleSarah replied to Justme's discussion Being in public in the group Widowed in 2019
"Yeah, I usually just say “hanging in there” or “taking it one day at a time.” I know people mean well, but I really don’t think I even have the words to explain how awful I really feel. Even if I did, it’s not…"
Jan 6
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Ugh, another day going by...nothing of consequence happened, but maybe that’s good because that way he didn’t miss anything good?? That’s how I’ve been feeling, like as long as I don’t do much, he’s not missing…"
Dec 29, 2019
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Ugh, another going by...nothing of consequence happened, but maybe that’s good because that way he didn’t miss anything good?? That’s how I’ve been feeling, like as long as I don’t do much, he’s not missing much.…"
Dec 29, 2019
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Steve, I couldn’t have said it better myself. I am not enjoying walking this world without him either. I also feel so alone, and am not looking forward to the holidays at all. People say that this time of year is just hard, but I really think…"
Dec 22, 2019
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"DeeDee, I think that is a neat idea about a print of a star alignment on a certain day, I’ve never heard of that before. Unfortunately, I haven’t yet figured out either how to deal with remembering him, and the good times, without the…"
Dec 14, 2019
CvilleSarah replied to Melissa's discussion Holiday Plans in the group Widowed in 2019
"Yeah, I was also thinking I would like to make time to celebrate with his family. It’s nice to be around people (his parents, brothers, etc.) that are constantly talking about him and remembering him and all that. That feels more natural right…"
Dec 5, 2019
CvilleSarah replied to Melissa's discussion Holiday Plans in the group Widowed in 2019
"My first holiday season also. I went to a “Holiday Planning” workshop last week put on by a local hospice agency. They pretty much encouraged us to be patient with ourselves, and whatever traditions or whatever you want to nix…"
Nov 21, 2019
CvilleSarah replied to DebiT's discussion So many places to say goodbye in the group Widowed in 2019
"These comments really resonate with me too. I constantly feel like I’m “in a fog”, and what was said about there not being much room in my brain right now for anything but grief really makes a lot of sense. That’s how it…"
Nov 11, 2019
CvilleSarah replied to Judyrose's discussion Lost in the group Widowed in 2019
"I just wanted to say that I’ve been reading through this thread too, and can relate to a lot of the comments and feelings. I am now about 6 weeks in. I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who doesn’t understand why he…"
Oct 18, 2019
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Jules, I”m sure it’s ok to cry as you write...I am crying every single time. I also feel like I keep writing the same things- how much I love him, miss him, how unfair it is that he is gone so soon, how lonely I am without him- but I…"
Sep 29, 2019
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Does anyone else write their loved one letters?? I have been pulling out a journal and writing to mine every night. "
Sep 25, 2019
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Jules, He looks like a good one, and seems like we could have had a lot of fun with you guys ❤️ "
Sep 22, 2019
CvilleSarah replied to Jules's discussion This is so hard in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Just came across this discussion post. Nance, I am about your age and my significant other was quite a bit older, like y’all. He passed away on 9/1 after about a 3 week battle with some medical issues in the ICU, which I consider a sudden…"
Sep 19, 2019
CvilleSarah replied to Jules's discussion 5 weeks and counting i in the group Widowed in 2019
"Yeah, me too. I’m still trying to figure out what I believe as far as what happens when we die...whether it’s our spirit going to a heaven type thing, an energy we have that lives on, some type of force, or something. Before all this…"
Sep 19, 2019
CvilleSarah replied to Jules's discussion 5 weeks and counting i in the group Widowed in 2019
"I found a GriefShare group too. I started this past Sunday on week 2, because I didn’t find out about it in time for week 1.  It’s maybe a little religious for me, but the people were nice so I think I’ll stick with it. I like…"
Sep 18, 2019

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At 5:42am on September 12, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, CvilleSarah. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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