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CvilleSarah
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  • Charlottesville, VA
  • United States
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CvilleSarah replied to CvilleSarah's discussion Not all here in the group Widowed in 2019
"I was widowed 9/1/19, so coming up on 10 months. I guess I just feel like I’m just a shell here on Earth  (don’t like being here, don’t want anyone or anything here), so the idea that most of me has already gone to be with him…"
Jun 27
EAZYTZ replied to CvilleSarah's discussion Not all here in the group Widowed in 2019
"very interesting conversation - caught my eye .  Im new to the group, was on last Zoom meeting 6/20 and will be there this Saturday 6/27. Cville Sarah don't know how long you are widowed?   that makes a difference - not that the…"
Jun 25
Lisa replied to CvilleSarah's discussion Not all here in the group Widowed in 2019
"I agree, not weird. I also feel so much less invested in anything here, including my work, which I used to be so passionate about. I sometimes feel guilty because I think I should be more present for my kids, but it is just hard to feel like…"
Jun 20
Carol E replied to CvilleSarah's discussion Not all here in the group Widowed in 2019
"Oh, yes, I feel the same way. There is no real joy for me here, and all I want is to be reunited with my husband. I don't usually talk about this with people who haven't lost the love of their life because I'm afraid they'll…"
Jun 20
Roxana replied to CvilleSarah's discussion Not all here in the group Widowed in 2019
"Not weird at all. I also feel i dont belong here any longer and i really want to he by my husbands side. So yes, we are kind of split. Our spirit/soul is up there, our body still here..."
Jun 20
CvilleSarah added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2019
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Not all here

Not to be weird, but does anyone ever feel like part of your soul is already in heaven, or something? Ever since my Joey died, I kind of feel like I’m “not all here.” Like maybe the best part of my soul-my happiness, joy, etc. went ahead and with him. Makes me wonder if it’s possible to be in 2 places at once. If so, it’s kind of comforting, because being where he is is definitely what I want. See More
Jun 20
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Jun 20
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Has anyone done the weekly Zoom meetings that Dianne posted on here about? I have done the past 3, and like them pretty good. I was also thinking, since meal times are one of the most lonely (like every other time isn’t too, but...) what if…"
May 29
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I’m at almost 9 months now, and yep still in pain all the time. It’s like I’m not really emotionally invested in this life anymore, just patiently waiting for it to be over so we can be together again. Some people have said that…"
May 20
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Lisa, My Joey was cremated, and I have the urn here, so no cemetery for me.  Over time, we are going to scatter some of his ashes at a few places he loved, because that’s what he wanted done. We’ve already done 1 place so far, were…"
Apr 25
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Thanks so much for these encouraging and validating words below. I’m at about the 7 month mark as well, and don’t feel like there is much hope of ever feeling happiness, joy, or contentment again. At least I’m not surprised much by…"
Apr 18
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Ugh. First of all, I love how people are asking me “oh, how are you doing with the social distancing?!?”....uhhhh, have you seen me want to go ANYWHERE or do ANYTHING since I was widowed 6 months ago? What do you think I’ve…"
Mar 30
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"So many of these thoughts echo mine so closely it’s uncanny...Sometimes I don’t even know what to post because my exact thoughts, y’all have already said. Geez I wish none of us had to feel this way, ugh :( It’s so dumb, so…"
Mar 13
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I’m about 6 months in, and sorry to say, don’t really feel anything but pain, loneliness, and misery all day every day either. I’m like you in that I’m not sure how much longer I can function this way, but don’t really…"
Mar 10
CvilleSarah commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Debra and Jonathan, Those trips sound really cool, although I couldn’t imagine how yours ended Jonathan :(. Geez! I can’t believe how stuff like that happens sometimes. Just doesn’t make any sense.  I’ve never been one…"
Feb 24
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At 5:42am on September 12, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, CvilleSarah. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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