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DanielleGoulden
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Rebound relationship -- or something more???? Yikes!!!

Started this discussion. Last reply by Supa Dupa Fresh Aug 29, 2011. 5 Replies

Hey all you wonderful women, It has been 8 months since my husbands accident and 2 months of watching him lie in a coma before that. About 6 weeks after he passed I was at my son's hockey tournament…Continue

Tags: advice, dating, sex, love

 

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DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Hey wonderful widows, I am wondering if anyone out there has experienced new problems with relatives (in-laws or your own) after their loss. I just feel like my husband died and now me and my sister don't speak because she needs to "find…"
Jan 11, 2012
DanielleGoulden replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Oh my gosh Skylark, I love it!!! I did something similar the other day except this had been the third or fourth time this particular agency called and I had enough so I replied, "as I mentioned to your company previously, my husband fell off a…"
Jan 9, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Thanks to all for sharing their feedback and support. I feel very inspired every day from the strength of those who have endured insurmountable obstacles in life and live to share their experiences and insight with others. I feel blessed to be…"
Jan 7, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"That is so good to hear Lilterrisue! It will be one year on January 29th. You are in the right place and have a great outlook on your healing journey. I immediately accessed all the resources I possible could for me and my children. Support groups,…"
Jan 7, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I too got into a brutal legal fight with my in-laws because my father-in-law tried very very hard to take over all mine and my husbands finances and because he was somewhat of a local celebrity, he started trying to convince people to not allow me…"
Jan 7, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Thank you for sharing this article. I think the underline thesis of the study is that we all do not follow the same grief path and nor will everyone who has experienced loss, also experience the same symptoms of sadness and depression. We all have…"
Jan 7, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Thank you Joyce, when we hope for pain for others it is ourselves we effect the most. I wish everyone peace, healing, serenity and happiness throughout their journeys in grief and in moving forward with courage and strength. "
Jan 7, 2012
DanielleGoulden and Dianne in Nevada are now friends
Jan 7, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I must add a comment here. Anger is a very normal emotional response to loss and grief however, it can quickly become unhealthy and take over other emotions and processes that will allow us to move forward, heal, find peace and happiness once again…"
Jan 7, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Thank you very much for the replies! I just had a giant weepy attack just thinking about how far me and my children have come since last year. I feel so grateful and so proud of us and really believe in my heart that we are going to be just fine, in…"
Jan 5, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Hey everyone. I haven't been on the site for a while, mostly because of how busy we are. It will be one year since my husband passed on January 29th and as the date approaches I am feeling so many emotions and really just confusion as to how I…"
Jan 5, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Dear Lilterrisue, I am so sorry for your loss and am very happy you found this site. don't put too much pressure on yourself to go through his things or do anything else that doesn't feel right for that matter. You will know when your…"
Jan 5, 2012
DanielleGoulden replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Losing my home.
"I moved 6 months after my husband died. I could honestly not deal with the house and the work that it needed and the memories it held. I also felt like the entire community was preoccupied with our lives and the decisions I was making for me and my…"
Jan 4, 2012
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Oh Musiclady, I am so sorry your experiencing the insensitivity of others! I can relate. My in-laws have been an absolute nightmare since day 1 and continue to try and bully and push me to the limit which effects my children so much! The whole…"
Dec 12, 2011
DanielleGoulden commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Great ideas Sheryl! I think if we all have some ideas as o how to get through the ideas perhaps we could start a separate blog because I am STRUGGLING with x-mas coming....literal panic attacks at the store! I had one idea. My husbands accident was…"
Nov 23, 2011
DanielleGoulden replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"My husband fell off a ladder hanging x-mas lights for his parents. He suffered a massive brain injury that left him in a coma and eventually a permanent vegetative state. After 48 days in that state, he had a massive seizure that pushed his brain…"
Nov 22, 2011

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At 1:36am on July 26, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
So pleased you found us, Danielle.  Take a look around and join our conversations.  You'll find wonderful support here.
At 7:20pm on July 25, 2011, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…

Danielle, I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here that I have.I'm finding together we are all stronger in knowing we are not alone.

 

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At 5:17pm on July 25, 2011, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others.  Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.

 
 
 

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