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DebiT
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  • Simi Valley, CA
  • United States
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DebiT replied to DebiT's discussion Regrets about what I didn’t realize in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi Erica Thank you for this.  My condolences to you as well.  Your experience just shows me that no matter what is already done, we think about what more could have been done.  In the end, it just happened, and if these things could…"
Aug 12
Erica_D_W replied to DebiT's discussion Regrets about what I didn’t realize in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear DebiT, I am so sorry for your loss of Randy. I am three years out of a very similar experience and I responded to another post somewhat similarly as I am responding to you. Nearly three years ago, my husband Alex died of a massive heart attack.…"
Aug 12
DebiT replied to DebiT's discussion Regrets about what I didn’t realize in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you all.  I'm sure everyone in this group feels the same way.  His doctor did call me right after and we had a long conversation.  I think that hindsight makes everything seem so obvious, but I'm not sure anyone would…"
Aug 5
Roxi replied to DebiT's discussion Regrets about what I didn’t realize in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Ciao DebiT i'm very sorry for your traumatic loss...i know how you're feeling now and the   obsessive questions that are in your mind...i lived  the same last year when my love suddenly disappear one night...i found some…"
Aug 5
Roxana replied to DebiT's discussion Regrets about what I didn’t realize in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Debi, I feel exac the same.my husband of 52 years of age went to bed and never woke up. We had no idea he is ill.The autopsy said his heart was at the end if life: previous heart attach, atherosclerosis, enlarged heart. So he died of systemic…"
Aug 5
Melissa replied to DebiT's discussion Regrets about what I didn’t realize in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Oh, DebiT, I'm so sorry. My husband had the same health issues as yours, along with high blood pressure. He had all the tests there were because he also had Multiple Sclerosis and due to the medications he was on for that, his heart function,…"
Aug 4
DebiT added a discussion to the group Suddenly Widowed
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Regrets about what I didn’t realize

My husband Randy died of a sudden heart attack 3/2/19.  He was fine at 8 pm and dead in the hospital by midnight.  The shock was tremendous, as I’m sure it has been for anyone in this group.He was always somewhat overweight, and a few years ago was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes, so he was often trying to lose weight.  I would usually be encouraging , sometimes a little nagging (which never worked).  We talked a lot about weight and blood sugar,but never about his heart.  He had no symptoms at…See More
Aug 4
DebiT replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello, my name is Debi.  My husband Randy died of a sudden heart attack 3/2/19.  We were together since I was 16, married at 20, for 41 years.  He was my best friend and we had a great marriage, having gotten through some rough times…"
Aug 4
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for DebiT
"Welcome to Widville, DebiT. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and…"
Jul 22

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At 6:48pm on July 22, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, DebiT. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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