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Frank commented on Dianne in Nevada's group Widowed in 2014
"Four months and twelve days later, when it is time to sleep it is the best time of my day."
May 1, 2015
gcortez55 commented on Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
"I too feel lucky that I had such a love with someone else and lived my wedding vows to the end. I wouldn't say I was lucky in knowing my husband had a terminal illness but I certainly feel grateful that I was able to experience music, dance,…"
Mar 25, 2015
gcortez55 liked Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
Mar 25, 2015
Frank liked TG (Trudi)'s blog post To my Darling Husband
Mar 25, 2015
Frank liked TG (Trudi)'s blog post To my Darling Husband
Mar 25, 2015
Frank replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I am sorry for your loss Becky. I think you made an excellent decision to go home after that person made such an insensitive comment. The folks who are not on our journey sure seem to have a difficult time understanding our sensitivities -- I…"
Mar 24, 2015
Barbie Doll commented on Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
"Beautiful picture of a beautiful lady.  We cling to those happy memories and try to block out the terrible images we wish we never had to see.  My heart goes out to you in this journey that you never wanted to go on.  I'm just…"
Mar 13, 2015
lonelyinaz commented on Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
"Hello frank bless u friend. Thank you for sharing your lovely wife michele and great picture. My love very many health challenges then years later deadly brain tumor. Our heart and head do not connect even though we know it is coming to the closing…"
Mar 9, 2015
NoLongerInBergenJC commented on Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
"No matter how prepared you think you are,  you're never prepared.  I remember thinking as I called the ambulance after my husband's stroke "This is it."  But then it was two weeks sedated on a ventilator and it…"
Mar 8, 2015
Patience commented on Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
"I never gave up hope either - and I never told any of our friends how serious I suspected my husbands disease to be. And my husband and I never discussed how this would most likely kill him. I too remember having so much fun (sometimes) in the…"
Mar 8, 2015
Dianne in Nevada commented on Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
"What a wonderful adventure you gave your dear Michele. Thank you for sharing your beautiful memory, Frank. While some think that those of us who cared for our loved ones were "lucky" I'm not so sure they'd feel that way if they…"
Mar 7, 2015
laurajay commented on Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
" while you may not have been prepared...  you were warned when she became ill.   Those with sudden unexpected death of a  spouse have no warning, no alert, no preparation ...it's like ugly magic  here and happy and…"
Mar 7, 2015
Callie2 commented on Frank's blog post I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.
"Your wife sounds like a remarkable woman. I love the pic, what a beautiful story and a nice memory to share here! Yes, the only good thing whether you lose someone suddenly or if it is over a period of time, is the precious time we spent with them.…"
Mar 5, 2015
Frank replied to Hayley_A's discussion Where is everyone from?
"I might be the newest member and I live in Rockville, Maryland in the United States."
Mar 5, 2015
Frank liked flannery's profile
Mar 5, 2015
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Mar 4, 2015

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I don't feel lucky about that. I do feel lucky about the other.

Posted on March 5, 2015 at 9:25am 8 Comments

My Michele was a resilient person and the best partner in life that I could ever have prayed to meet, or be blessed to journey with.  In the words of my close childhood friend--who knew Michele well--I married up.

She was on the journey with…

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At 6:26am on February 5, 2015, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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