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Posted on August 9, 2013 at 9:24am 17 Comments


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At 1:44pm on April 28, 2015, leendah said…

gordy's widow - just read your comment - OMG - what bull!  If these people only knew what their actions do..........Makes me want to be even nicer to people, and I will!

At 9:37am on December 4, 2014, leendah said…

I also agree - this website has helped me keep in touch with like minded people, knowing tomorrow can be better and if not it's okay to feel what I feel and still look forward to tomorrow.  Thanks everybody and I will try to look at the holiday season as a time I can be with friends and relatives and not all about missing someone who was in my life.......

At 9:43am on October 6, 2014, leendah said…

you're right - I think this year I will be putting out a lot more Christmas stuff, this time it's for me.  And as far as friends invites go, some of them are new people.  there were past associates I had to let go of (not good for me anymore) and those that let go of me.  I am trying to look at it all as transitions, and a new chapter I will make the most of.

At 8:17am on October 6, 2014, leendah said…

thank you GW about decorating for Halloween for one's self - I'm gonna start this weekend throwing some stuff out in front yard.  And as far as Christmas - that's gonna be a toughie but I'm gonna find some different things to do in my city to keep busy/occupied/happy - thank God for friends who have invited me over!  thanks everybody for your comments - it helps!

At 8:24am on August 22, 2014, loycer said…

Yes, "friends" who care only about themselves move on and we must be open to new doors opening and they will open sooner or later.  I lost a sister/neighbor/"friend" who failed to appreciate my circumstances so I have reached out to more positive/upbeat peeps who relate to me

At 1:22pm on March 26, 2014, JPSwifeCathy said…

praying for you today Gordy:)

At 9:02am on January 23, 2014, BESTBUDS1 [Norman} said…

Because my Wonderful Wife passed 4 days too soon, they stopped her 1st disability check before it hit the bank..i guess maybe they needed xtra money to send overseas, or buy another $600 commode seat..Very sore and raw subject with me,,they steal our money and give it to some who are worthless..Trying to be nice w/o letting it fly..Anyways ,, I aamagain thankful to have you as afriend and wish you many Blessings ...Norman

PS..and you know where they can shove that

At 8:40am on January 23, 2014, BESTBUDS1 [Norman} said…

so happy to be your friend,,i am truly sorry for your loss also and thankyou for sharing this story..Tears flow as I read it..Wishing you Blessings unmeasured ..Norman

At 8:17am on October 20, 2013, my roses said…

My roses  20th October  Yes I get songs from Wes with special meaning. Often I do not know the songs, but I  feel I should turn the radio on and there is a message for me.

One was"I was a refugee and you took me in and now you are refugee fleeing from sorrow"  Very true.  Also have had gifts... see the link above on  my page  called

2 gifts from Paradise.


At 6:58am on October 4, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
I have to think about all the reasons that Life is still good here--my daughter, friends, family but it's still HARD--that's why I can't wait till my PERFECT HOME

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