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KK replied to missing my love...'s discussion Anyone experiencing challenges with adult step children?
"It is so hard when you have been a part of the family for so long and they shut you out. I did so much for step children and like you he wanted to take care of me. The estate went to me and now his kids don't have anything to do…"
KK replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Dating and love
"Wow that is scary. I have a couple of friends that are divorced and are dating someone they met on match.com. Have you ever tried that? I thought plenty of fish was supposed to be a good one. It is the number one right now."
KK replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Dating and love
"How do you choose a good website. I am so lonely and would love to find some one to spend time with."
KK replied to Cessa's discussion Superbowl
"I feel your pain. I don;'t like it. Where is everyone that promised that they would not forget me. I feel alone and so sad. I have dug in to cleaning out his closet which is making the pain worse. "
KK commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"My married friends seem to have forgotten me eventhough they promised they would not. I go it alone now. Very lonely and sad. My husband loved watching the game and we often hosted parties. Tonight I am alone cleaning out…"
KK commented on MyNewLife's blog post OMG I Sold My Rings Today
"I just recently took off my rings because so many people at bridge asked about my husband. Easier to not have to explain but cried for and hour after.
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KK commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"Well the realization just hit that I am really all alone. With some of my married friends today and found out they were all out together last night and no one bothered to call me. I realize I am not a couple and don't fit in…"
KK replied to missing my love...'s discussion Anyone experiencing challenges with adult step children?
"I have had the same problem. 10 days after we buried Alan my step daughter wanted the official reading of the will. I was heartbroken. I told her that everything went to me till I passed. She stated she had been dinherited…"
Angie aka Woody's Girl commented on KK's blog post Holidays are rapidly approaching!!
"My husband died in a car accident last December 1st. My 2 grown sons surprised me 3 days later by hanging up my Christmas lights and decorations. They both knew how much their Dad was just a big kid at Christmastime and this was their way of…"
bettye commented on KK's blog post Holidays are rapidly approaching!!
"This is my second Christmas without my husband. Last year I did not put up a tree. Just sort of coasted through the season. Surprisingly I am beginning to look forward to it this year. He is not here with me physically but I know…"
Tommi commented on KK's blog post Holidays are rapidly approaching!!
"My husband and I always sent out photo holiday cards highlighting what we did that year (trip to AZ, out wedding, racing gokarts, etc)...last year was the first Christmas without him. I did a montage of pictures throughout our time together…"
greyeyes10 commented on KK's blog post Holidays are rapidly approaching!!
"This will be my first holiday season as a widow and orphan. I plan to make the very best of it. Thanksgiving my friend and I are going to try to host. I imagine there will be lots of laughter. For Xmas I imagine I will go to my friends like I did…"
janet commented on KK's blog post Holidays are rapidly approaching!!
"I put up of small fiber optic tree last year and decorated a bit even though my 34 yr old did not want to. Iwill put it up again this year and will probablyset up my Christmas Village as well and decorate a bit more than last year. This…"
TammyRI commented on KK's blog post Holidays are rapidly approaching!!
"Ive told my boys the show must go on. We always have a huge open house on Christmas Eve and we will again this year! It will be our first Christmas without my husband. I figure better to try to have a good time and if we fail and…"
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Holidays are rapidly approaching!!
Posted on October 31, 2012 at 4:49pm 10 Comments 0 Likes
How does one deal with the holidays? Does one send cards out? I am not up to wishing any one a Merry Christmas. Not feeling it this year. I don't want to put a tree up just for me. No one is coming in. Will it be more depressing with out a tree. Not looking forward to not getting invited to the Christmas parties. I am sure all of the couples will go. It just feels really weird and I am not sure what to do. Wha are you all doing?
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- At 10:26am on August 31, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
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- At 10:04pm on August 15, 2012,
Arnie (New Normal) said… KK, Welcome, sorry we have to meet this way. Widowed village has saved my life the friendships i created here will last forever. Come here often as we all get it, i am in chat alot but enter what works for you, also know i will have a get together in sept 8th in morris county NJ you are welcome to come if you are up to it, it will be 100% widowers and widows only...
Arnie
- At 11:56pm on August 14, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome KK: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
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