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Lark
  • Female
  • Temecula, CA
  • United States
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Lark replied to Miket's discussion Birthday in the group Widowed in 2016
"Your family are asking you to do something extremely difficult out of ignorance but probably also in hopes that it will bring you comfort. They don't understand that, while they still have their own lives intact, your life is shattered and many…"
Jun 17
Lark replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion PETS? in the group Born in the 50s
"I don't know whether the timing will work out, Boo. It takes so much strength just to get through each new day that I haven't any left over to put into this problem. So, so weary; and more than anything I'm exhausted from fear of the…"
Jun 9
Lark replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion PETS? in the group Born in the 50s
"What I'm facing is the practical reality that I "should" re-home one of my three pups in order to move on, but I just can't do it. My two old ladies were adopted from a shelter in bad shape -- one having had been subjected to so…"
Jun 8
Lark replied to Riley's discussion friends in the group Widowed in 2016
"I know just what you mean, Riley. Not only do you feel like the odd man out but having to quietly sit there and listen to them chat about everyday life sorts of things when life is so NOT everyday normal for you. How I wish my friends could spend…"
May 10
Lark replied to ExSystema (Mon)'s discussion I lived a dream, and now that dream is gone from me.
"Mon, thank you for sharing your and Darby's story. She was clearly an amazing woman, beautiful inside and out. A love like yours doesn't end and she will be with you forever."
Apr 15
Lark replied to Riley's discussion I don't want this life in the group Widowed in 2016
"Riley, I wish I could sit with you and just listen to you give voice to your fear and your heartbreak. At 15 months, it's slowly getting better, I'm feeling stronger. I didn't believe it when a psychologist said it would happen like…"
Apr 13
Lark commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Irishlady: alone feels even worse when our adult children disengage. We know all the reasons they give, but really? Could we not help each other through this together?"
Mar 17
Lark commented on Orb101214's blog post Small Rant
"I hear you! Try dealing in person at a "corporate store." Worked for me."
Mar 10
Lark commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"for mcbeth and all who are scared (which includes me, but 14 months out so a little less):  I think we're less scared when we feel in more control and this helped me:  I have a spiral notebook I call (a little blasphemously perhaps)…"
Mar 10
Lark replied to WittyBlondeWolverine's discussion Coming up on a year and feeling sad in the group Widowed in 2016
"Lots of triggers FOR SURE and some come out of absolutely nowhere, when you are completely unsuspecting, slam you to the ground and stomp you to a sobbing pulp. I am 14 months out, thought I was doing okay but was wrong. So I have withdrawn from a…"
Mar 6
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Lark
"Welcome to Widville, Lark. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You…"
Mar 5

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At 6:47pm on March 5, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Lark. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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