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Lark
  • Female
  • Temecula, CA
  • United States
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Lark replied to Riley's discussion How are you doing? in the group Widowed in 2016
"The professionals say second guessing is counterproductive but how do you stop? And when you've got the closest person to you on earth -- well, used to be -- telling you that you didn't try to save her father, you begin to believe that…"
May 28
Lark replied to Riley's discussion How are you doing? in the group Widowed in 2016
"That's a great suggestion, Riley!  My husband was in complete denial, telling everyone his dramatic weight loss and cadaver-ish appearance were Crohn's disease. After he finally submitted to a CT scan he lied about the devastating…"
May 28
Lark replied to Riley's discussion How are you doing? in the group Widowed in 2016
"How are you doing? Should be so much better and would be, 2 yrs and 4 months out, were it not for the agonizing fact that my (adult) daughter blames me for her father's cancer death -- that I could have/should have done more to "save"…"
May 27
Lark replied to Riley's discussion I feel like a dork in the group Widowed in 2016
"Mary, this is the first time I've seen a comment that echoes my own sadness.  I, too, have a daughter who's been angry at me from shortly before her father died (cancer.)  We had always been so, so close (I thought) and yet she…"
Feb 19
Lark replied to Riley's discussion I feel like a dork in the group Widowed in 2016
"Apparently in Victorian times a widow just disappeared into her home, never to be heard from again; and that was to be expected.  In those genteel times, I suppose widows had the "decency" not to impose their condition on the world…"
Feb 11

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At 6:47pm on March 5, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Lark. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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