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Michele Neff Hernandez
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Michele Neff Hernandez's Discussions

Grateful for all of you

Started this discussion. Last reply by rodsgurl09 Oct 22, 2012. 5 Replies

I just want to thank all of you for the outpouring of love, compassion, and concern for our Widowed Village brother Javier. Each day I check in on the thread where you are all leaving messages, and I…Continue

Tags: spouse, of, and, children, grieving

Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind

Started this discussion. Last reply by goingon (Cynthia) Mar 18, 2014. 63 Replies

A forum for members who have suffered a two or more losses: partner and child, partner and parent, partner and any other significant person in your life.Note that we also have formed a group to help…Continue

Tags: child loss, multiple losses

 

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Mar 17, 2015
Michele Neff Hernandez commented on RGL Events's blog post My Own Two Feet by Michele Neff Hernandez
"Thank you all for taking the time to comment on this post. Discovering that the widow card is the survivor card, and that we own that card for life, has been a game changer for me. It doesn't take away the pain of losing my Phil, but it does…"
Mar 9, 2015
goingon (Cynthia) replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"Patrick - I'm so sorry for all of your loss.  I have had multiple losses as well (which is why I'm on this forum) and it's very hard - almost impossible - to recover from one when they come one after another.  But you will…"
Mar 18, 2014
spikesdad (Pat) replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"I have lost 3 of my brothers, one in a motorcycle accident ,one to suicide ,and another to ALS. my father died at age 62.and my mother passed in 2007. my wife died of lung cancer august 20th 3012. my niece's husband passed a week before my…"
Mar 17, 2014
NoLongerInBergenJC replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"My mother died December 19, 2012. My husband was diagnosed with bladder cancer March 6, 2013.  Determined to be muscle-invasive April 15.  Started chemo late June. Our cat Jenny died July 3, 2013. My husband died October 5, 2013. Our other…"
Mar 17, 2014
goingon (Cynthia) replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"Reunited44 - I'm so sorry for all of your loses and that you have had to deal with it alone, but most of all, sorry to have to "welcome" you here; none of us want to be here, but here we are.  I lost my husband, both of our…"
Feb 9, 2014
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Nov 2, 2013
goingon (Cynthia) replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"Heather - I'm so sorry for your losses... yes, you fit in, unfortunately..."
Sep 15, 2013
Missing D&Z (Heather) replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"Don't really know if I fit into this or not...I lost my dear husband on Jan 31, 2013 and then had to put down our dog of 12 years on May 4,2013...it was horrible. The dog (Zoey) had cancer too...was less then a week from when we learned about…"
Sep 14, 2013
goingon (Cynthia) replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"Thank you for your thoughts.  I'm very sorry for the loss of you husband and your fiancee.  It's very traumatic when we go through these things, and I say, whatever works, works.  Whatever helps is good.  Shalom."
Aug 28, 2013
my roses replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"  My roses Dear goingon    I fully understand what you are saying.   I just wanted to give a possibility for someone... because most of the time, we do not get enough ideas or knowledge given to us to choose from ( to…"
Aug 27, 2013
goingon (Cynthia) replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"My Roses - I guess we all have certain belief systems.  We have all had loss that perhaps at the time was not something like losing your spouse - I lost my dog when I was 18 - he was poisoned.  That was a loss.  I lost my grandparents…"
Aug 26, 2013
my roses replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"August 26th    My roses Hello Cyndy  I too have had many losses My mother at 11 yrs of age, my fiance being kidnapped in the middle of the night, my first husband died.... and more issues happened later in my life.   I…"
Aug 26, 2013
my roses replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"August 26th    My roses Hello PM  I too have had many losses My mother at 11 yrs of age, my fiance being kidnapped in themiddle of the night, my first husband died.... and more issues happened later in my life.   I want…"
Aug 26, 2013
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Aug 24, 2013
goingon (Cynthia) replied to Michele Neff Hernandez's discussion Multiple Losses (more than one) of any kind
"Hi, Patrick.  Haven't seen you here before.  I'm sorry to have to welcome you. Two weeks after my husband died, his dad died; I had to give up my dog 6 months later; then my mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, my dad died, I…"
Aug 24, 2013

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At 3:37pm on December 29, 2012, wannabmartha said…

Happy Birthday Michele! May all of your birthday dreams come true!

At 7:53pm on September 28, 2012, Evelyn said…

Hi Michele,

I'm new to this site but noticed we both live in Simi.  Just wante dto drop a line and say hello.

At 7:22am on December 29, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…

Happy Birthday, Michele!

Dianne

At 11:52am on December 6, 2011, Chris said…

Hey Michele!  I hope all is well!

At 3:31pm on February 1, 2011, Kane said…
Love SSLF it has been my inspiration, looking forward being part of the Canadian contigent at Camp Widow.
 
 
 

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