Boy, that was hard. I went to see a specialist and he asked my marital status. For 14 years married I was always happy to say married. It was so hard to breathe at that moment, let alone to say the…Continue
"Same thing happened to me - had to go back to the same hospital where he died for a test. They always ask about your contact information. Fortunately they had a box of Kleenex close by and no one was in the waiting room. "
"I do not want to answer that question. I was also married 14 years. Its only been 2 weeks so I might be too early to be thinking about that. I have found comfort knowing there are others having the same issues and seeing what they do to help. "
"Thank you, Mrs Bear! I have been have a rough few days with my grief- I'm 6 months out. I am printing this off and taping it to my kitchen cupboard so I'll remind myself how good I had it for 18 years.
Your title is what caught my…"
I cry at the laughterI laugh through the tearsI dance with the sobsCounting minutes, missing yearsI whisper at the noiseHeart left in shredsShouting at the silenceFor words we never saidI reach through the darknessFor love that isn't thereI'll find it in the light againOnce I bear my widow's tearsSee More
"How you speak of Marcus tells me you loved him dearly and I know he probably loved you just as much or more. He would know that you would grieve for him but I am sure he wouldn't want you to suffer or e hirt. I always say to myself…"
"I have keep his eyeglasses where he left them last. His clothes are still hanging there but I did remove some of his things from the shower. They made me cry every time I showered. It's been 2 months and 5 days. As I…"
"Aww Diva70. I am glad the words brought you comfort. So sorry for your loss. That is beautiful that he is leaving such a mark on the world and that his legacy will live on. Those "first since" moment are totally…"
"This is beautiful! On April 29 I lost my soulmate, my knight in shining armor, my prince charming. We had 50 wonderful years together. We endured the good, the bad and the ugly together. We experienced miscarriages, job losses, and physical…"
Just recently had to fill out a doctor’s questionnaire and a question was marital status— MARRIED, SINGLE, DIVORCED, OR “OTHER”. Thought that strange so I didn’t answer it. You know, there are different…"
"Mrs. Bear, I think there is a discussion around here about that. I'm so sorry (HUGS) we have all been through that somber moment. Yes, it's an eye-opener and a tear jerker. I'm six months out and was in the…"
I love you through my painI love you through my lossI love you through the tearsI'll love you still, through our lost yearsYou loved me when I couldn'tYou loved me when I wouldn'tYou taught me how to loveI know, you'll still love me from aboveThank you for the laughsThe fun times that'll forever lastI'll live now for us a both, that's a factI will love you always, to the moon and backSee More
Boy, that was hard. I went to see a specialist and he asked my marital status. For 14 years married I was always happy to say married. It was so hard to breathe at that moment, let alone to say the words. I guess now I cannot pretend that this is not a bad dream and he'll walk through the door any moment. Missing Bill. See More
Welcome to Widville, Mrs Bear. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. And the "chat room" is open 24/7. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.