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Overwhelmed

Started this discussion. Last reply by Mrs Bear Aug 12. 4 Replies

Right now still overwhelmed by life. It's almost 4 months.  I guess I thought I was ok because I survived the first 3.  I must have just been coasting in denial.  Right now I feel like I am…Continue

Having to say the "W" word

Started this discussion. Last reply by Mrs Bear Jun 19. 9 Replies

Boy, that was hard. I went to see a specialist and he asked my marital status.  For 14 years married I was always happy to say married.  It was so hard to breathe at that moment, let alone to say the…Continue

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sunshinesoon commented on Mrs Bear's blog post So true, found on Facebook
"So painfully true"
Nov 15
Mrs Bear commented on Mrs Bear's blog post So true, found on Facebook
"@Dee, yes camp widow is amazing.  I went to San Diego.  It was emotionally draining but so therapeutic. "
Nov 4
Dee commented on Mrs Bear's blog post So true, found on Facebook
"This is so true. My husband passed away in July  and it's still so raw. I decided to go to Camp Widow in Toronto and I've met so many people that really understand.  It's been an intense, yet very comforting weekend. "
Nov 4
Rainy (Misty) commented on Mrs Bear's blog post So true, found on Facebook
"Yep, that perfectly describes losing a spouse!"
Oct 30
bayoured commented on Mrs Bear's blog post So true, found on Facebook
"This is so completely true. Sometimes it feels as if you just lost them the pain is so bad....."
Oct 28
Lifeunknown17 commented on Mrs Bear's blog post So true, found on Facebook
"yep. this is a pretty well written explanation of dealing with this loss. Everyday, there is something, that makes you go thought it all over again. exactly."
Oct 25
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Oct 24
Mrs Bear commented on jlsrdh's blog post 2 months
"It's been 6 months since I lost Bill suddenly from PE at 49. I also did CPR.  Ever since I am now traumatized when I see CPR on TV. My compass in life is broken right now. I'm in unchartered and unwelcomed territory.  I guess…"
Oct 24
Mrs Bear replied to Mrs Bear's discussion Overwhelmed
"Thanks Frank.  I had my chat with my niece it felt good talking through it. Thanks for all the support. "
Aug 12
Frank replied to Mrs Bear's discussion Overwhelmed
"Hi Mrs Bear, Your "coasting in denial" is spot on.  It's sort of a internal self defense that our minds work for us.  Some times that fog can last a full year or so.  It depends upon the person and each of us, while on…"
Aug 11
Mrs Bear replied to Mrs Bear's discussion Overwhelmed
"Thanks booktime.  You're right, they probably don't realize it.  I am going to write them a quick note since right now my emotions are so raw I don't think I can verbalize what I need.  Thanks again for the help."
Aug 11
booktime (Susan) replied to Mrs Bear's discussion Overwhelmed
"Breathe. Your grief is so raw, there is no normal for you right now. When you can breathe, you might be able to talk to them about how you are feeling. If you can't, don't worry. What you are experiencing is what we all have and are…"
Aug 11
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Overwhelmed

Right now still overwhelmed by life. It's almost 4 months.  I guess I thought I was ok because I survived the first 3.  I must have just been coasting in denial.  Right now I feel like I am breaking.  I can't sleep and everything has me bawling. I let me niece and her 17 year old son move in and they are touching things that wa Bill's responsibilities and I am loosing it.  We were together for 17 years and it was all fine before he left me suddenly and unexpectedly. He was very technical and I…See More
Aug 10
Mrs Bear replied to Whitedoves9698's discussion Im sadly new
"We can't go back to what its, you make decisions with what you know at the time.  Just hold to the love you had for him.  Take it one hour, then one day, then one week at a time.  I lost my husband suddenly and unexpectedly to a…"
Jul 1
bayoured commented on Mrs Bear's blog post Mending Broken
"Beautiful!!!!!"
Jul 1
Mrs Bear replied to Mrs Bear's discussion Having to say the "W" word
"Thanks for sharing Frank. Losing Bill suddenly and unexpectedly made me get my affairs in order quicker than I wanted.   They will never be a erased from our memories."
Jun 19

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So true, found on Facebook

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Mending Broken

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Infinity and beyond

Posted on June 12, 2018 at 8:54pm 4 Comments

I love you through my pain

I love you through my loss

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I'll love you still, through our lost years

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At 10:27am on June 9, 2018, Patience said…


Welcome to Widville, Mrs Bear. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. And the "chat room" is open 24/7.
Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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