"I noticed your picture as I was reading this thread. Jack Russell Terrorist? We have one, HER name is Eddie and she's neurotic, energetic, unpredictable and very, very smart. We didn't realize how smart until we got a puppy, a…"
"Why does my brain keep expecting my husband to peek his head around the corner at my job? My heart knows he's gone, it's been 2 years. I'm fragmented and parts of me have accepted reality and parts of me, obviously, have not. I'm…"
"Janch02, what a beautiful letter! It gives me hope for a future love, but I too want it to be, not easy, but simple and OBVIOUS like it was with Bubba. I'm afraid that making memories with someone new will make me forget my wonderful…"
"mrs4evr- I can't imagine the awful burden you've been bearing, in addition to the personal tragedy you've suffered. I pray that justice will be served in your husband's case and his wonderful name cleared. You're in my…"
"Juliana, I can't imagine taking my ring off either. I wear mine, a simple gold band, where it's always been, and I also where Bubba's on my right hand. I've ordered a widow's ring to wear with my wedding band.…"
"loveof44, I'm so very sorry. I would love to give you peace for your broken heart, or maybe just a hug to help you through the next few minutes or hours. Please know I will be praying for you and your children and for color to return to…"
"Had a wonderful weekend with friends, but it's always there...I'm alone now. There is no husband to go home to, there is no hand to hold, no one to share all the weird little things in a day with. It's not just my loss of…"
"greenash514, I'm at one year almost four months and the feeling of expecting my husband to be with me hasn't gone away. When I wake up, for half a second, I expect to find him sleeping next to me. I know he's gone, in my head I know…"
"I believe all of our spouses would want us to be happy again, even joyous. I would like that too, I just don't know if I'm capable of happiness. It's a choice I make every day, to be happy, but when will it just "be…"
"Ann, I ask myself this same question nearly everyday. My Bubba died suddenly too, of a heart condition we didn't know he had. I'm so glad that we told each other "I love you" all the time. If we had known and had 24 hours…"
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