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At 1:20pm on October 24, 2018, beautifulbreeze70 said…

I hear you on not knowing what kind of a mood you will be in from one day to the next.  And the Jackal and too funny but right on point with how it feels sometimes.  I have been in a bad way this whole month...last year I was on a vacation in Mexico for our 10th wedding anniversary...its almost unbearable to think of how happy he and I were around this time last year.  But somehow we keep treading on.  I hate to say if but I am looking forward to this month/year being over in general.  

At 7:46am on October 24, 2018, beautifulbreeze70 said…

Hello and so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband.  I lost mine suddenly without warning from a heart attack 7 months ago.  I remember feeling like your feeling.  With 7 months now gone by it has not gotten better but different.  My heart was broken into a million pieces back in April but I am slowly putting my heart back together again.  I do my best everyday to make him proud of me by trying to live each day as he would have wanted me to.  I have some days were I am ashamed at how I am living (really not living but angry/pissed at the universe for taking him) and days were I know I have made him proud by taking a breath and step towards what future lies ahead for me.  That is really what gets me through this nightmare.  I don't think we will ever be the people we were, a piece will always be missing but I also believe that our husbands are with us and watching over us.  


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