"My Charlie passed in April 2012. I have had several visits from him. A couple were in that state between sleeping and waking. In both of those, we were in bed with me wrapped in his arms. When I awoke I could still feel his arms around me. the…"
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Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
Started this discussion. Last reply by CharliesGirl Mar 25. 9 Replies 0 Likes
Yes, yes, I know just what you're thinking. The woman writing this has gotten a hold of a computer and is in a mental health ward!I did have a dream (visit?) though, and very real it was. My husband…Continue
Last Things Your Loved Ones Did?
Started this discussion. Last reply by Juliana May 19, 2012. 7 Replies 0 Likes
I had to go into my husband's home office tonight. My copier broke down and I needed to make a copy. So, I sat down at his desk and opened up the copier - on the copier was the last thing he copied,…Continue
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Profe D (Susan) replied to Nancyfc's discussion Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
"The only dream that I have had of Dan was the night after his funeral in September. He told me that he missed his mom.
BUT....my niece had a very vivid dream of Dan in February. She said that she was at a party and when she walked…"
Maria Louisa replied to Nancyfc's discussion Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
"My husband appeared to a friend in a dream to tell her he had a message for me. (She has some gifts like a medium or "psychic") - He wanted me to know some things about my future, and that we would be together again... It was a deep…"
Nancyfc replied to Nancyfc's discussion Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
"Dear Suz:
I am so glad you had a couple of visits. I wasn't scared either and it seemed so natural, and so real.
I think our husbands are still with us and are watching over us.
There is more between heaven and earth than we…"
Nancyfc replied to Nancyfc's discussion Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
"It's just unbelieveable, Huh? The night my husband's Dad died the alarm at their family store went off twice and the alarm company had to come out twice to shut it off. Usually one of the family members would go down and shut it off,…"
Nancyfc replied to Nancyfc's discussion Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
"I think this might be more common than we think - I will be a lot of loved ones have gotten visits but decided it was just a dream. I'm sure you husband was giving you a sign that your husband will always be with you.
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Suz replied to Nancyfc's discussion Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
"I had the same thing happen. We talked about it before he died and he agreed he would visit if it was possible. I saw him, in that sort of end of dream state, two nights in a row. He looked good and had on my favorite sweater...even though it was in…"
lizbeth4 replied to Nancyfc's discussion Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
"I had a strange experiece. My Husband passed 12 days ago. The first 3 nights following his death, I was awoken to knocking on the front door at 2 am. I got up and looked out and no one was there. The second night my Sister…"
Cessa replied to Nancyfc's discussion Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
"I kind of had the same thing happen. One night as I was sleeping on my stomach, I heard a shuffle noise, I know my eyes felt wide open, but I couldn't lift my head off of the pillow. Then I heard clothes dropping on the floor (…"
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Has Anyone Had Their Loved One Come Back to Visit
Yes, yes, I know just what you're thinking. The woman writing this has gotten a hold of a computer and is in a mental health ward!I did have a dream (visit?) though, and very real it was. My husband and I where settling down to go to sleep and we were talking, I had my head on his shoulder. I could smell his fresh t-shirt, I could see his profile, he looked healthy and had all his hair and the light was very strange, kind of hazy with a golden glow to it. I kept wondering where the light was…See More
crying left a comment for Nancyfc
"Hi nancy
Of course I would be your freind. Wish as a friend I could give you words of wisdom but I haven't found them yet. Maybe together we will find at least one word besides pain and hurt"
Nancyfc replied to Marly's discussion Dating question! Feedback, please!
"While this is a VERY LATE response, I would dump this guy. I am sure you already have.
My second husband was the love of my life and my soulmate. We met when I was 38 and we were both divorced.We were just friends. I had been in two…"
Nancyfc replied to LostLady's discussion Body Armor From Widows
"Haven't had that situation come up, but I did have a situation where a handyman my husband and I employed asked me for a 72 hour loan for $1400.00. He would have never asked if Ken was alive.
I understand how this can be a real problem. My only…"
Nancyfc commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Oooooops, I posted incorrectly. Please accept my apologies! Really, not a good day when I do that!"
Nancyfc commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Hi All:
I lost my husband in September of 2010. I've had ups and downs, but again I've been feeling down.
I have been trying to stay busy and have been, but the weekends are difficult.
Anyone else having this problem after 2 1/2 years?
God…"
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- At 8:25am on March 7, 2013,
crying said… - Hi nancy
Of course I would be your freind. Wish as a friend I could give you words of wisdom but I haven't found them yet. Maybe together we will find at least one word besides pain and hurt
- At 11:46pm on April 10, 2012,
sherry said… yes Nancy my husband passed from PC in February last year 4 months after diagnosis. He was 47. Thank you for your friend request. It gave me a smile to see you reach out to me. I too am sorry for your loss.
- At 10:29am on March 10, 2012,
Paula Rene said… Hi Nancy, I am sorry for your loss. I appreciated what you said on the "born in the 50's site" and responded to your comment. I hope we can help each other through this. My story is a lot like yours in that I had a terrible first marriage and only intended to be "friends" with the man who became my second husband. We joked about our "religious" differences. I was a conservative Methodist and he was what I called a "Holy Roller" w/an Assembly of God background. My husband died at 62 after heart surgery and diabetes related problems. My life has been a living hell ever since b/c we thought we had our estate in order but his son from his first marriage has sued me in 4 lawsuits and I have spent my life savings defending myself. I have won the first 3 and even though I get judgments, I will never recover the moneys wasted.
I would just like to be able to move on now and have a life but I am stuck here until these lawsuits end and my health improves.
Paula Rene
- At 1:11am on March 10, 2012,
Dorothy said… Hi Nancy,
Thank you for accepting me as your friend.
Also sorry for your loss.
I attend a grief support group in my town once a week.
I'm glad I found this group it really does help alot...
Have a goodnight.
(((((HUGS)))))
Dorothy
- At 8:02am on March 9, 2012,
Jan said… Hi Nancy,
It is my understanding is the same about being able to hear and in a coma. I know he would have loved the idea and made him feel good and knew he was loved. You did a great thing. I had a Rabbi tel me that the body is but a casing, it is the spirit (the soul) that lives on and he is here in another form looking over you. What makes our being is the gifts we left behind and the joy we have in our heart for our loved ones.
Jewish teachings have always been of comfort to me, the songs, melodies, and traditions. If you get a chance check out youtube for songs by Debbie Friedman such as
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qXm3lX19nQg
and her version of Psalm 30
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLsTk0YpE4A
ENJOY and looking to get your thoughts.
Take Care and Be Well
Jan
- At 6:18am on February 22, 2012, Jan said…
- Nancy I'm so sorry for your loss your history sounds very similar to mine except I was Jewish and my wife was Christian. We .were together for 17 years and she died of cancer at age 55
- At 10:32pm on February 21, 2012,
carolynne said… Nancy, I'm so sorry for your loss, but glad you've found us. I hope you'll find the same support and understanding here that I have. Welcome.
- At 9:28pm on February 14, 2012,
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- At 9:22pm on February 13, 2012,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
- At 10:54pm on February 12, 2012,
Sheryl-momof4 said… I am glad you joined Nancy! Thanks for the talk tonight, you called at just the moment I needed you!
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