"Since Van died in May of 2015 I have not dreamed about her. Not sure if this is a subconscious way of coping or not. But in the last month or so I have. It feels so good to see her again. Last night I dreamed her and I were at a casino for vacation…"
"Same here Mary. Right after her passing her sister would have nothing to do with me. The only ones who stayed in touch was her son and youngest sister but that too is now a couple times of year communication. Her daughter who was 5 when we started…"
"Melissa I feel your pain. I too wanted to move. I feel that moving would be a step in moving forward with my new life. But I would have to sell my current house. I just can't get motivated or find the energy to get my house ready to put on the…"
"Thanks NoLonger. I know I need to go back to my psychologist. I called and she no longer is with the clinic. I started looking for others and was not having much luck. Then yesterday I got a letter saying she had opened her own practice. Like a…"
"I'm doing good, I guess. But I wonder if I have just put away my wifes ALS and death in May 2015 to some far reach of my mind. I can hardly remember a lot of times when I was caring for her 2 years before her death. Mainly I feel guilty I…"
I’m sorry you’re have a hard time. Losing him on Fathers Day and buried on his birthday has got to be hard. It’s been almost four years and I still have my moments too. I have a woman in my life, I love her and we…"
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