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Nardly
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  • Amelia Court House, VA
  • United States
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Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Thanks NoLonger. I know I need to go back to my psychologist. I called and she no longer is with the clinic. I started looking for others and was not having much luck. Then yesterday I got a letter saying she had opened her own practice. Like a…"
Aug 4
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I'm doing good, I guess. But I wonder if I have just put away my wifes ALS and death in May 2015 to some far reach of my mind. I can hardly remember a lot of times when I was caring for her 2 years before her death. Mainly I feel guilty I…"
Aug 3
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Hi all! I joined this group a while back after joing widowed 2015. Checked in here and see a lot of postings. How come I don't get notifications about postings here while I do in the 2015 group? "
Jul 26
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Hey Hope, good to hear from you. The aging part is a bitch. Both physically and mentally. So what has changed in the last four years? "
Jul 26
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"CinPan,  I’m sorry you’re have a hard time. Losing him on Fathers Day and buried on his birthday has got to be hard. It’s been almost four years and I still have my moments too. I have a woman in my life, I love her and we…"
Apr 11
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I’m so sorry Bundles. Sometimes when someone seems to good to be genuine, you have to be cautious. I’m glad you found him out before it got to serious. But I know it must hurt too. "
Jan 13
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"TFH2015, you're not alone. My Mom died a year ago and today the will was finalized. It felt like it was final. Up to this point I guess dealing with all of it I was preoccupied. That she had not really gone.Then driving home I heard that song…"
Dec 8, 2018
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Hi Bundles,  I know how you feel. For me I wanted someone to share my life with too. I’m 65, no living family. My wife’s family doesn’t want to ba a part of my life since she died. I tried dating sites, went on a few dates,…"
Nov 14, 2018
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"It’s nice to catch up with members from our group. I’m sorry to hear about your knee and getting turned down for disability Charlotteelsie. Don’t give up on the disability. Most people are denied the first time. Van was turned down…"
Aug 6, 2018
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"It’s nice to catch up with members from our group. I’m sorry to hear about your need and getting turned down for disability Charlotteelsie. Don’t give up on the disability. Most people are denied the first time. Van was turned down…"
Aug 6, 2018
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Suzy B, your story and mine seem very similar. Trying to live my life now. I went looking at smaller houses yesterday. I had a Mass for Van Saturday night and that brought back some grief. I can look at pictures now and remember the good times but…"
Aug 6, 2018
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Well it's that time of year again. Van passed away on May 15th, 2015. I started getting real depressed about a couple of weeks ago. I don't want to do anything, I'm overeating, I guess to stuff my feelings? I dreamed about her the…"
May 11, 2018
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Without you’re right. Guilt is a bitch. But I think we tend to beat up ourselves far more than we may deserve. Thanks for reminding me that we do the best we can at the time. The anti depressants do help as far as giving you more focus and…"
Mar 7, 2018
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Without, it sounds like you are suffering from depression. Very common in grieving people. I have been taking Antidepressants for about a year and a half. My wife passed in May 15th 2015 and therapy and the medication made things better. It will not…"
Mar 7, 2018
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Hi all. I haven't been here in a while and after reading the last 3 posts thought I would chime in.  Evolving, we never get over it, we move forward. My daughter reminded me of that about a year and a half after my wife died. Nieta put it…"
Sep 20, 2017
Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Good for you on retiring Terry. I am sorry to hear you're having health problems. I pray you will come through this okay. As far as retirement, I like not having to get up early, drive an hour each way to work etc but do miss the camaraderie we…"
Jul 8, 2017

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At 4:23pm on April 10, 2016, deaf widow said…

Thank you, Nardy, for being my friend.  Sometimes I have "chatted" and it helps.  I have been widowed since 12-29-15.  I live in AZ.  Am 65 yrs. old (yes..old).  Thanks again.

At 8:04am on May 30, 2015, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others.  Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help. Below is a link that you might find helpful as a new member.

http://widowedvillage.org/forum/topics/need-help-using-the-site-ask-here

 
 
 

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