When I first help my Grandson, I told him that his Grandpa was watching him from Heaven. I guess it's what you call Bitter Sweet. Your right, it doesn't take away the pain. But it does help a…"
"Susan, yes it feels just like existing, breathe in and out, eat, sleep etc. I fear the winter months my self. Last winter I was really worried. I don't know why , but it scares me. The days are darker earlier, its…"
"The nights are the worse for me because my sons are ages 24 and 20 and they are both single and in the prime of their lives and I don't want them to think they have to take care of me so they go out with their friends at night and I…"
"Your last sentence really hit home for me. I ask the same thing. Is this it? I feel like I'm in some kind of contest to see how long I stand it. I want my husband back so bad. I want my life back so bad! I…"
The night is hard... even now that it has almost been 1 year. Every night I do the same thing... I put my Ipad, Iphone, and glasses on Paul's pillow. Say my prayers... Then put my Audio Book on for a while. Is this ALL I…"
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