"Sue - the key component of your comments is that you 'met this man a few weeks ago.....a few weeks is enough time for infatuation not real love. It's going on 27 months since I lost my honey whom I still miss every moment of every day.…"
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Robert's Baby commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"This is a very lonely journey that doesn't seem to have an end. I lost my husband on Nov 23, 2010 and met a great friend on July 31, 2011. I was not interested in meeting anyone, just trying to live again. I was trying to carve out my…"
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Robert's Baby replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion For those who have dated... how did you know when you were ready?
"No you are not dreaming! I've been dating a widower since July of last year and he has courted me throughout this period. When we met, I had only been widowed for 8 months and had no interest in dating or even talking to another man. But the…"
Robert's Baby commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"It's been a year and three months for me and I still haven't 'put away his things'. I just don't have the heart nor do I feel that it has to be done NOW. I will do it when i'm ready...so let go of the anger at yourself…"
Robert's Baby replied to nature girl's discussion How do you start dating?
"Today is the 8 month anniversary of Roberts death and I started dating 3 weeks ago. Not intentional by any means. Went to a concert with friends, started talking with a guy there, he took my number and we've talked almost everyday since…"
Robert's Baby commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"I'm really glad that someone else relates this experience to being 'biploar'! That's exactly how I feel sometimes. Some days filled with great hope and expectation and then the crash! I had begun to wonder if I needed medical…"
Robert's Baby commented on Kitequeen's blog post Widow vs. Widow
"So well written and is a reflection of my feelings too! To have a vibrante, healthy husband to the one who lost all vitality was heart wrenching to watch. I too felt a sense of relief for him and yet a sense of shame that I had those feelings. Thank…"
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crying commented on Robert's Baby's blog post Seven Months and Fourteen Days - Alone
"I am walking with you. It's been 10 months for me and just like you hear"doing great" as the tears run down my sunglasses. There hasn't been one day I haven't cried. I'm now working three jobs to help…"
Dawn- Clouds Mum commented on Robert's Baby's blog post Seven Months and Fourteen Days - Alone
"Honey, talking hellps, getting on chat and expressing what I am feeling is one of the best things for me, but then I am a talker. The more we talk at times like this the easier the burden is to bear. This is not an easy journey we are on and you and…"
Dianne in Nevada commented on Robert's Baby's blog post Seven Months and Fourteen Days - Alone
"All of those "what if" questions can eat us alive, can't they? I'm just a couple of months ahead of you, but I've learned that it's important to not second-guess what we did in caring/supporting our spouse once…"
cronan commented on Robert's Baby's blog post Seven Months and Fourteen Days - Alone
"I'm so sorry for your loss and can relate to you in many ways. I don't comment much on this site, but it has helped reading others' stories. My husband's name was Robert, but we called him Bob. I'm…"
Taunje commented on Robert's Baby's blog post Seven Months and Fourteen Days - Alone
"I feel the very same way here in Widville. The 2 year date is slowly approaching for me, yet this has been the only place in this whole 22 months that I feel others "get" me. When you are ready to talk and you want to talk, you…"
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Seven Months and Fourteen Days - Alone
Posted on July 8, 2011 at 4:27pm 5 Comments 1 Like
As I walk through this new phase in my life it seems that only those in widowedvillage understand what it's like! I don't chat or blog often but I do visit the site and read the comments; sometimes even in the chat room just not commenting. One of the reasons that i've not spoken for myself is that you all speak for me! I feel what you feel - the pain, the loss, the loneliness, the confusion, the tears, the smiling face that tells a lie - the full gammit.
Robert was not…
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Posted on May 10, 2011 at 12:25pm 5 Comments 0 Likes
As I drive up to my house and see that the grass needs cutting, the flower beds need cleaning, the trees need trimming, and on and on and on....what and how do I get it all done? I used to think that Robert did nothing around the house and now I know how wrong I was! It will 6 months on May 23rd since his death and I hurt soooo bad. You are the only ones who really can understand,. As I write this tears are streaming down my face because I don't know what's next! How do I get all done? I…
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- At 9:05am on May 3, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
- At 8:10pm on April 23, 2011,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… 
- At 8:29pm on April 21, 2011,
Alive & Mortal said… Welcome, Please feel the freedom to express yourself a lot here, as this is a safe place that will support you.
I hope you find strength for the journey here - you are not alone.
- At 3:09am on April 21, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
Welcome to Widowed Village. You’ve come to a wonderful place filled with those who "get it". Joining groups is a great way to get connected to others who have similar experiences. Jump into some of the forum discussions, request some friends, try out the chat room, just immerse yourself in this very special place. I look forward to getting acquainted with you here in Widville.
My grandparents lived in Southfield (on Dun Scotus) and I grew up in Adrian, Michigan.
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