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Sheryls
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  • Leroy, MI
  • United States
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Sheryls replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"Wow, that's exactly how I'm feeling. I don't want to "need" a man, but I have been in a relationship  practically my whole life. Married 2x, my spouse just died last year. I am cleaning out my place, having an auction,…"
Jul 13
Sheryls commented on The Hungover Widow's blog post To help the widowed, let us talk about our marriages.
"so sorry for your loss! What a beautiful couple! You are just about 4 years younger than me. We never expect to be widows so young, do we? I think that is such a hard part of loss, losing ourselves! What do we do now? I know my life was turned…"
Jan 4
Sheryls replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I agree, Terry! Crazy!"
Dec 10, 2017
Sheryls replied to Aly brabham's discussion Is it normal to keep items around your house of theirs
"Whatever you feel to do for you is ok. My friends gave me a beautiful photo of the two of us, which I treasure. I blew it up and framed it. It is in our living room. I emptied both his dressers! But kept his dress shirts. I may make a quilt. They…"
Dec 10, 2017
Sheryls replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"exactly!"
Dec 6, 2017
Sheryls replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Yes, Sasha, I believe this must be normal, because I am very moody. I was more like you, but now I just feel numb. I have been working on cleaning up the garage. I have a lot of sorting to do, and plan to have a sale in the spring. I just hate being…"
Dec 6, 2017
Sheryls commented on mls64 (Mike)'s blog post Separating emotion from logic...
"mos64, I feel exactly what you are going through! I just lost my husband Tom 2 months ago. Hardest. Thing. Ever. He was such a great guy, and we were married 22 1/2 years. It was like losing half of my own body, my brain is still in a fog. I have to…"
Dec 6, 2017
Sheryls replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion MOVING? in the group Born in the 50s
"I agree, going through the "stuff" is a solitary job for me. I need to decide keep or let go. Most of it I am letting go, there is too much! I only need a few things, and I don't need any reminders. Tom will be in my heart forever. WE…"
Dec 5, 2017
Sheryls replied to Doug02122014's discussion What to do with spouses personal effects and when?
"Dear Doug, I think we hope that if we get the "stuff" out of sight, it will help us not to remember the things that bring so much pain. The first thing I packed up was all Tom's shoes. I certainly couldn't wear them, and just…"
Dec 5, 2017
Sheryls replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi, I am SherylS. My husband Tom passed away in October. I joined a grief support group through Hospice within 2 weeks. Oh, my what a great encouragement! Tom, we found out, had stomach cancer. It was such a shock because he had literally never had…"
Dec 5, 2017
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Sheryls
"Welcome to Widville, Sheryls.  I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask…"
Nov 26, 2017

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At 4:14am on November 26, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Sheryls.  I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

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