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Shoosie2
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  • Brownsville, CA
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a very uplifting article

Started this discussion. Last reply by Rainy (Misty) Apr 23. 2 Replies

 I just found this while taking a break at work. I found it very enlightening, especially since my Rick contacted me twice in 12 hours. Last night, upon pulling into the driveway, the radio again…Continue

 

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Shoosie2 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"LOL Shelley!  You know what older fat kitties look like? They have the sagging tummy that swings under their abdomen?  It's called a fat pad.   I used to tell my Rick  'don't touch my fat-pad!' …"
Wednesday
Shoosie2 replied to Miss Em's discussion Teenage support groups for loss of a parent in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Miss Em Here's a possible resource for our kids           http://www.griefhealingdiscussiongroups.com/ They have several forums, including loss of a parent. Hope that can off some help. Peace Steph "
May 9
Shoosie2 replied to vintage56(barb)'s discussion the little things
"My Rick was a Brit, so I had to learn his crazy Cockney Rhyming Slang- now that was a task!  ' Oh my aching plates of meat!'>  that meant feet. Or taking a Jimmy =  Jimmy Riddle= piddle.     Or getting new…"
Apr 30
Shoosie2 replied to Aly brabham's discussion Is it normal to keep items around your house of theirs
"I hear you Athena and laurajay.  I took the plunge and got Life Alert for my 61st birthday present to myself. I still have to get it hooked up, but it's not a pendant but the alarms is worn like a wrist watch. I am filling out the medical…"
Apr 30
Shoosie2 replied to Aly brabham's discussion Is it normal to keep items around your house of theirs
"Yes, all of this resonates on a lower level. We had an 17 year old cat that we brought back to the US from England. She hated going outside for her business, and she refused to use a kitty box. Turns out, she was using Rick's closet. I cleaned…"
Apr 29
Shoosie2 commented on Rainy (Misty)'s blog post Clearly
"I totally get your post, Misty. I'm at the 4 1/2 month mark, and sometimes the grief war in the trenches, and the tsunami still gets me. But like you, I am not going to allow grief to win. I know that I am stuck here on this earth, but I am…"
Apr 28
Rainy (Misty) replied to Shoosie2's discussion a very uplifting article
"I bookmarked that to re read as often as necessary.  It is a very uplifting, thanks for sharing it Shoosie! "
Apr 23
Shoosie2 replied to Nieta's discussion Have you experienced any "God Winks" (i.e., messages) from your late spouse?
"I've posted before about my Rick's MiniCooper's radio turning on and off before the key is inserted or removed, or the TV and radio in the house turning on and off by themselves.  Well, today would have been Rick's 65th…"
Apr 19
HelensRay replied to Shoosie2's discussion A Ton of Bricks in the group Widowed in 2017
"Steph, I could say snap, snap, snap, snap to everything that you said. Its now nearly 10 months since I lost Helen and its just so hard.  I have this routine where at night I take Helen's photo to bed and in the morning I take it…"
Apr 18
Senecagirl replied to Shoosie2's discussion A Ton of Bricks in the group Widowed in 2017
"It amazes me how much the stories i read here hit home. Its like we are all living the same life. I am at 4.5 months also and i too feel the reality of this new normal creeping in on me. I am supposed to be getting my house in order to sell and move…"
Apr 17
Shoosie2 commented on MidnightBear (Tony)'s blog post Contradictions
"Hi Tony, callie and Bayoured I to find myself watching old movies and a few newer series. I can;t watch Game of Thrones, as it it the last thing we watched together. There are still 2 seasons to watch, but it was our series, and I  can't…"
Apr 17
SweetMelissa2007 replied to Shoosie2's discussion Has Anyone had any 'Strange' things happen in your house since your spouse passed? in the group Widowed in 2017
"You are very welcome! Sharing these experiences keeps everyone from thinking they're hallucinating which by the way is possible when over tired. For myself, I still get signs from Bob at any time no matter what my mood is ... BTW, the cruise…"
Apr 17
Shoosie2 replied to Shoosie2's discussion Has Anyone had any 'Strange' things happen in your house since your spouse passed? in the group Widowed in 2017
"Sorry for the late reply, but thank you Shelley, Misty, Melissa, Gunnerx2, Jija and Senecagirl. I still am getting the MiniCooper's radio turning on ....or off....when I get in or out of the car. It's either before I insert the key fob, or…"
Apr 17
Shoosie2 replied to Shoosie2's discussion A Ton of Bricks in the group Widowed in 2017
"Dearest Denise and Sweet Melissa Thank you so much for your kindness and support. It means more than anyone on this site could know. I am now totally alone, for the next 6 weeks until my sister returns from Palm Springs, apart from my Rick's…"
Apr 17
shelley replied to Shoosie2's discussion Has Anyone had any 'Strange' things happen in your house since your spouse passed? in the group Widowed in 2017
"Sometimes I think my husband is saying something to me, but I'm not sure- I could just be talking to myself.  I've read and heard from people that they feel their husband's/wife's presence constantly.  And I wish that…"
Apr 17
DeniseL replied to Shoosie2's discussion A Ton of Bricks in the group Widowed in 2017
"Steph, I totally get it.  I'm at 6 1/2 months since I lost Chris.  At about 5 months I noticed that I was getting worse instead of better, so I started counseling through Hospice.  It's helped but you're right grief is…"
Apr 17

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At 8:54pm on February 26, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Shoosie2. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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