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SoundOfSilence
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  • Minneapolis, MN
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SoundOfSilence commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"I woke up today, looked into the mirror and said honey I am going to have a good day, immediately I burst into tears. I so wished I was actually saying this to my husband and he would tell me oh yes honey it is going to be a good day. Well I have…"
Nov 2
SoundOfSilence commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"I have had so many of these issues and I have now found that I just have to ask for managers at all times, not that it is a sure thing you will get someone good but after the last few weeks of literally getting bounced around on everything I have…"
Oct 31
InsideLove replied to SoundOfSilence's discussion It's Getting Real or Is It in the group Widowed in 2017
"SoundsOfSilence, in the only book I've read (It's OK Not To Be Okay, by Megan Devine) I found an answer, or explanation, to why our minds eat themselves - going round and round and round in our heads about the immediate before, after and…"
Oct 27
SoundOfSilence replied to SoundOfSilence's discussion It's Getting Real or Is It in the group Widowed in 2017
"Thank you NancyD and InsideLove. It is very helpful for me to hear your experiences on going through this. I feel like my mind is on repeat and I cannot get over how Dan died, flying to California Sunday and when I left us talking about how this was…"
Oct 27
SoundOfSilence replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I just lost my husband Dan 4 weeks ago. I am 34 and he was 50, we were together for 5 and a half years and only married for a year and a half. We had no children together but he had 2 adult children from his previous marriage that I love. He was my…"
Oct 27
InsideLove replied to SoundOfSilence's discussion It's Getting Real or Is It in the group Widowed in 2017
"{{{Hugs}}} for you SOundsofSilence. I can’t answer your question about - when will it really sink in Dan is gone? My husband Marty, of 47 years, died unexpectedly and suddenly after a routine hip surgery on Aug 28th. Every morning and night…"
Oct 27
NancyD replied to SoundOfSilence's discussion It's Getting Real or Is It in the group Widowed in 2017
"I am so sorry for your loss and sorry that you get to be part of this group.  My husband has been gone for 6 weeks now and I feel all of those feelings you so well describe here.  Coming to accept the reality is just a long painful…"
Oct 27
SoundOfSilence added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2017
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It's Getting Real or Is It

Today will be 4 weeks that my sweet husband Dan has been gone. I feel like it is getting more real at times but then I think oh no this really didn't happen, it was so sudden and unexpected that I cannot even really believe it. I still cannot get over that we were supposed to have more time and how unprepared for this I am, I guess one would never be prepared for this.  I just keep wondering when will it really sink in that he is really gone? He is the love of my life and coming to the reality…See More
Oct 27
SoundOfSilence commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Thank you InsideLove, hopefully this site will help us all get through this devastating time."
Oct 27
SoundOfSilence commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"It is very hard for me to come to the realization that my life will never be the same but it will not. I lost my husband Dan on Sept. 29th, 2017 very suddenly and unexpectedly. I was in California on business and hadn't even been there for…"
Oct 26
eliana left a comment for SoundOfSilence
"Welcome to Widville, SoundOfSilence. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join…"
Oct 26

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At 9:05am on October 26, 2017, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, SoundOfSilence. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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