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Travieso
  • Male
  • Loveland, CO
  • United States
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Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Have you gotten the condoms yet? "
Sep 2, 2016
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I didn't cry at my wife's funeral, but after I got all the left over food from the reception put away, I cried for hours when I was by myself."
Aug 17, 2016
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Yeah, meaningless, random sex, with a scumbag willing to break his vows, who wants to cheat on his wife, that's the way to handle the loss of the person you loved and acted about for 30 years. "
Jan 22, 2016
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"New one!  Some background - I was going to the local Harley dealership to do Color Guard for the Realities Run for Children, which raises money for abused and neglected children. I hit some sand and wrecked my Harley, (I'm OK, bike…"
May 28, 2015
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I have a good friend like your two good friends, we go out, have some fun, but nothing romantic or sexual. Hugs are as physical as our relationship has been or will be. Kimberly has been a Blessing. "
Apr 24, 2015
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I was told I was "lucky" that Connie died a long death, because I had a chance to say "Good Bye", and so I would be able to get over it quicker."
Apr 21, 2015
Travieso commented on Soaring Spirits's group Military Families
"Welcome Pinaywidow. It is with sad heart that I welcome you to our group, due to the loss you suffered to be elegible to join. Are you also in the American Widow Project? "
Feb 17, 2015
Travieso commented on Soaring Spirits's group Military Families
"Frank - having been on both sides, military member and military spouse, I can't agree with you more. "
Dec 6, 2014
Travieso commented on Soaring Spirits's group Military Families
"Frank - Was your wife also in the military?"
Dec 3, 2014
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Thant is just mean, to insinuate that you would take a date to your husband's funeral. Sorry you are here, welcome. Sorry because it means you lost your husband."
Aug 26, 2014
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I thank you for this section. It is nice to have a safe place to air our gripes, and make it easier to forgive. The best description I have ever heard of unforgiveness is holding on to a red hot coal, and hoping it burns the person you are angry…"
Aug 26, 2014
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"It's the Holy Spirit letting you know that you're still alive, He's with you and there's still Joy, within and without. God Bless."
Aug 26, 2014
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Lucky?!?!? Sometimes I even miss the arguments my wife and I had, (not much, but some) because I had her here to argue with. Not lucky at all to have our loved ones gone."
Aug 23, 2014
Travieso commented on Soaring Spirits's group Military Families
"The VA finally came through with my wife's grave marker. Didn't get it quite right, but I'm NOT waiting another TWO YEARS or more for another grave marker. And even though she went downrange in OIF, not the Persian Gulf, she was in…"
Aug 18, 2014
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I couldn't watch much of it, but the couple of things I saw were not infantile, infants are kinder than that, what they did was down right mean."
Aug 14, 2014
Travieso replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Had I tried any of those things, my wife would be the widow instead of me."
Aug 14, 2014

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At 4:10pm on June 8, 2013, onmyown said…

Welcome Travieso! So sorry for your loss but glad you found the site. I hope you will introduce yourself to the Military Families Group when you feel comfortable. We are all here for you.

Jen

At 9:04pm on June 7, 2013, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…

I'm very sorry for the loss that brought you here, but I'm glad you found us. i hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here that I have over the past 2 years. Welcome Travieso !

At 5:40pm on June 7, 2013, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Travieso. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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